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8691340 tn?1415127741

awkward saying this.. :/

Hello girls, I apologize if im being too specific with my personal situation but here I go, pls no judging :( well I'm 24 weeks pregnant and lately I've been having problems when it comes to intimacy with my partner.. i always would have orgasms but it's been 2 weeks that I'm having a hard time having one:( my bf thinks I'm not attracted to him anymore but that's not the case..idk what's going on with me... i wanted to know if anybody have had the same problem and why is thus happening to me..:/
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8691340 tn?1415127741
Awww thank you so much for your advice.. that was so helpful... i appreciate it:) thank you all in general:)
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I know exactly how you feel. I don't really have a desire to be intimate with my fiance since I've gotten pregnant. And when we are, I find it harder for me to orgasm. And I had no problems before. What your partner needs to understand is that you are going through a lot of changes not only physically, but emotionally and, most important, hormonally as well. Your body is changing. In my situation, I'm very focused on how I'm feeling and making sure that I'm comfortable for the baby. And it's hard for me to focus on anything else. My advice to you is try new things while being intimate. Orgasm via sex is not the end all be all. There are so many ways to achieve an orgasm with your partner. Be open to different ideas. You never know what will work. And most importantly, communicate with your partner. Let them know how you feel. And be open to how they feel. This is only a small bump in the road and is extremely common. And lastly, when it comes to pregnancy, there is never such thing as to much information. We are all here to listen to others, share experiences and problems and to offer advice. Keep your chin up :)
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8691340 tn?1415127741
Thank you girls for responding..I hope your situation gets better.. and yes its been weeks that I don't enjoy having sex with my partner but i know its temporary...
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9414151 tn?1406839268
During pregnancy can do that to u cuz with all 3 of my pregnancies i would only do it once a month with my man or a little less its normal so don't worry about it too much about it you'll get back to it once the bb is born.
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Maybe its just your pregnacy?? I can't have an orgasm with mines because i start getting pains in my lower stomache and we have to stop. And sex is so uncomfortable for me so your not the only one with problems!!:(
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