jealousy! !!

[babycantu15]

I can't help that the further and bigger I get into my pregnancy,  I'm sooooooooo jealous now I feel unattractive cause I can't fit into anything anymore and I'm always hungry..... I feel so bad cause I know my husband wouldn't hurt me in anyway especially being unfaithful. .... :(   Am I the only one who feels this way???

[babycantu15]

My husband tells me I'm beautiful pregnant,  but I just dont feel it ! I see all these skinny girls he works with and the jealousy kicks in.... He tells me I have absolutely nothing to worry about.

[firstat31]

I with you Mel. My husband makes me feel so good about the fact that my clothes are no longer fitting. He gets pedis with me...which I think is more for him :-) ..And he makes sure that he tells me I'm beautiful in a way that I truly believe him.

[Mel_Singh]

yes i felt that. but my partner thought i looked sexy being pregnant

[nannewmom]

Yes. Same boat here, I am feeling a bit insecure about my body. Not to much jealous. Hubby is a great supporter tells me am beautiful. but its hard to believe when your wearing 3 times your size clothes and your body is doing all kinds of wired stuff...I completely understand you♡ plus are hormones dont help, they make everything 10 times worst...darn hormones:/

[Jenn28815]

Yep, you're not alone. I'm not really in the jealousy part, but the whole nothing fitting and feeling a bit down about how unattractive I feel now. He says im pretty, but there's days in just have to play along and pretend I believe him when he says it.

[Newmummy657]

I feel big and frumpy also!!! I don't have the husband problem and don't feel he would ever cheat on me! After all I'm growing his baby inside me... I think you would be surprised by how much your husbands and partners love you right now!

[Firstxmom]

tat87, yeah your absolutely right.  

[tat87]

@firstxmom it used to really upset me, but I'd rather he be pulling on his ****** at home vs at the bar getting drunk and flirting with girls. Sigh, I guess we have to pick our battles.

[nikkirilling]

I felt that way when I was pregnant with my first child and even after I had him and then when I got pregnant with my daughter I never felt that way and even after she was born I didn't feel y
That way but bow that Shes a little over a month I don't even like to look in the mirror cause I feel so unattractive

[Firstxmom]

I feel not so sexy anymore too... I feel bad because I take it out on my man. I actually just apologized to him a while ago. He understands. Buuuuut a couple weeks ago I was using his internet on his phone "we don't have computers" and I seen a ton of different porn sites. I cried my eyes out immediately  after. I don't look like those girls at all! Lol he held me and did make me feel better. He doesn't cheat, I don't even have that thought in my head and he should be able find others attractive. But porn.... Really lowers my self esteem. Should I be ok w it?

[mfayb]

@tat the number thing would definitely upset me. But I think some insecurity during pregnancy is normal.  We go round :) and am worried about the future.  All reasonable emotions.

[tat87]

My husband is too flirtatious also. He took it a bit to far and took a girl's number (out of pity, was his excuse) recently. I haven't been able to trust him since, but I work hard not to show my insecurity. I know we are hormonal to a certain degree, but do they have to make matters worse by being such pigs?

[GxoK]

I'm starting to get like that too. If I wasn't pregnant, idk that I'd feel this way. I don't want to think my husband would cheat on me but at the same time he has a tendency to b slightly flirtatious. It's unintentional but this has been a hard time for us in numerous ways so I'm probably just psyching myself out.

[octoberpumpkin]

I don't feel jealous or concerned about hubby at all, but I do feel way ugly and self conscious :/

[claudia0802]

No I feel the same way ur not alone