No I feel the same way ur not alone
I don't feel jealous or concerned about hubby at all, but I do feel way ugly and self conscious :/
I'm starting to get like that too. If I wasn't pregnant, idk that I'd feel this way. I don't want to think my husband would cheat on me but at the same time he has a tendency to b slightly flirtatious. It's unintentional but this has been a hard time for us in numerous ways so I'm probably just psyching myself out.
My husband is too flirtatious also. He took it a bit to far and took a girl's number (out of pity, was his excuse) recently. I haven't been able to trust him since, but I work hard not to show my insecurity. I know we are hormonal to a certain degree, but do they have to make matters worse by being such pigs?
@tat the number thing would definitely upset me. But I think some insecurity during pregnancy is normal. We go round :) and am worried about the future. All reasonable emotions.
I feel not so sexy anymore too... I feel bad because I take it out on my man. I actually just apologized to him a while ago. He understands. Buuuuut a couple weeks ago I was using his internet on his phone "we don't have computers" and I seen a ton of different porn sites. I cried my eyes out immediately after. I don't look like those girls at all! Lol he held me and did make me feel better. He doesn't cheat, I don't even have that thought in my head and he should be able find others attractive. But porn.... Really lowers my self esteem. Should I be ok w it?
I felt that way when I was pregnant with my first child and even after I had him and then when I got pregnant with my daughter I never felt that way and even after she was born I didn't feel y
That way but bow that Shes a little over a month I don't even like to look in the mirror cause I feel so unattractive
@firstxmom it used to really upset me, but I'd rather he be pulling on his ****** at home vs at the bar getting drunk and flirting with girls. Sigh, I guess we have to pick our battles.
tat87, yeah your absolutely right.
I feel big and frumpy also!!! I don't have the husband problem and don't feel he would ever cheat on me! After all I'm growing his baby inside me... I think you would be surprised by how much your husbands and partners love you right now!
Yep, you're not alone. I'm not really in the jealousy part, but the whole nothing fitting and feeling a bit down about how unattractive I feel now. He says im pretty, but there's days in just have to play along and pretend I believe him when he says it.
Yes. Same boat here, I am feeling a bit insecure about my body. Not to much jealous. Hubby is a great supporter tells me am beautiful. but its hard to believe when your wearing 3 times your size clothes and your body is doing all kinds of wired stuff...I completely understand you♡ plus are hormones dont help, they make everything 10 times worst...darn hormones:/
yes i felt that. but my partner thought i looked sexy being pregnant
I with you Mel. My husband makes me feel so good about the fact that my clothes are no longer fitting. He gets pedis with me...which I think is more for him :-) ..And he makes sure that he tells me I'm beautiful in a way that I truly believe him.
My husband tells me I'm beautiful pregnant, but I just dont feel it ! I see all these skinny girls he works with and the jealousy kicks in.... He tells me I have absolutely nothing to worry about.