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just venting

My boyfriend and I are having our 4th child we've been together 11 years and im kinda fed up with his sister shes racist. My boyfriend is mexican and im white and she talks about are kids and how we shouldn't mix race's it not healthy and its not right. I tell her that she sound racist and it looks really bad on her but in her mind shes not doing any harm. It really upsets me  cuz she will call my kids muts like they are dogs and treats them different from all the other kids. My boyfriend tells me to just let it go shes just ignorant. I just dont want my kids around that I want them to see people for who they are not the color of their skin... feeling frustrated
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She obviously need prayer.... Don't worry, separate yourself from that foolishness. It's not healthy being around negative ppl period. Negative ppl usually rub off on you as long as you entertain them. Good luck.
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He is really laid back he doesn't like that im letting it bug me he tells me stress is bad for me so just let it go and to just think about our kids... we've done alot to keep out of our life but his mom doesn't like that we dont want her around the kids so then he feels bad. So he gives in every now and then
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Haha maybe she's jealous because mixed babies and kids are always so stinking cute! I say that having a blonde haired blue eyed little girl. Don't get me wrong she's the most gorgeous thing in the world but everyone knows mixed kids are gorgeous. She obviously has issues with you and is trying to make you feel inferior by attacking your kids. My bf is all laid back like that too, but there's a difference between being laid back and not having boundaries. 4 kids that is so exciting! Congratulations!
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Yeah she's an ignorant and you should not pay attention to her, what a *****, my husband is Mexican and I'm Dominican and if one member of his family say something like that to me, I would block them from my son's life
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How about keep your kids away from her? I mean if you've told her she's being ignorant and rude and she doesn't at least respect the kids, then is she someone u really want around them? I have mixed kids as well and I'll cut my own mother out if she acted like that. Kids need someone to speak for them and that's you
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