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How did you tell your man that you are pregnant? What was his reaction?
My story was not really interesting because we were trying to get pregnant, so we did the test together
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I called him n said well you finally got me wewe laughed n said I love you crazy lady i got you for life now
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I smoked a lil bit of weed on the 29th day and went to the dollar store to buy a el cheapo hpt.  I came back and took the test and I got my BFP!  I showed my hubby the test and he asked what it was.  I made him guess and he was surprised I got pregnant after 3 cycles of TTC.  I took another test and showed him again and that's when it sank in.  
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8853806 tn?1409288299
Im in the same boat we tried first time was successful
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I smoked a lil bit of weed on the 29th day and went to the dollar store to buy a el cheapo hpt.  I came back and took the test and I got my BFP!  I showed my hubby the test and he asked what it was.  I made him guess and he was surprised I got pregnant after 3 cycles of TTC.  I took another test and hour later and showed him again and that's when it sank in.  He was really happy as I was too and quit smoking weed that same day.  Now we're 19 wks and all is looking good with baby. :)
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We were trying as well. I took a test while he was at work. I didn't wanna take it in front of him and be emotional that I wasn't pregnant lol. So the next week was fathers day and I really was trying to hold it in. But I must have had a glow or looked suspicious because soon as he saw me he was like something happened. Are you pregnant? Are you pregnant? So I had to tell him he just knew lol
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7552771 tn?1469929649
My bf and I were trying. Only took us one try. But I tested so soon that the line on my test was so faint at first I thought it was negative. I called him crying hysterically that I'll never get pregnant. Then after I hung up I saw Tue second line hahaha. I shook it like an etch and sketch. I went to the dollar store to do another test it was also faint positive. So I put a hamburger bun in the oven and when my bf came home he asked if I was still sad I said I was fine but there was something special for him in the oven. He went to go look. He came back confused. He said "its bread" I hinted for about 5-10 minutes before finally he was like "there's a bun in the oven?" I gave him that look like yup and he got all teary gave me a huge hug and said "oh sh*t I need a better job" hahaha
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I cried when I told my husband. We've been together for a long time and although kids were in the plans we were not trying. (Unplanned but not unwanted) I didn't know how he was going to take the news exactly,(he doesn't do well in surprised/ stressful situations) turns out he took it better than me! Now we're both excited for the new addition coming in the spring.
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We were trying for 5 years, so when I was late he bought the test, I took it, and when there were two pink lines I started crying and called him in to make sure I was seeing correctly. He got way excited and made me take the other tests too just to be sure lol. I don't think we've ever hugged each other that hard <3
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10076934 tn?1410143581
My man & I had been trying & trying. I took about 10 tests within 4 months & finally gave up. I got high one day & got so sick which was unnormal. So we went to buy another test. I peed & right away didn't see a line so I threw the test in the sink n finished peeing. He picked it up & was like you are pregnant. My story is boring too, lol.
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I took a test at my work and I waited until my husband came home from work to tell him.  After I found out I called him and said I bought him a gift and was excited for him to see it when he got home.  When he got home I said happy 8 years of being together and handed him the test and said surprise your going to be a daddy.  His response was are you sure there are two lines he kept looking at it in shock but was very excited.
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Ericatoday that is such a cute story bun in the oven how adorable love it!
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I had taken one test and the lines were faint and I kept putting off taking the other one and he kept telling me I needed to. So, he went to work that morning and I took the test after I sent my oldest to school. Felt like I waited forever lol Went back into the bathroom and saw the telltale lines. I took a pic of it and sent it to him and said 'well, there's no doubting this one, huh?lol' Totally not an interesting story but, we aren't theatrical and figured I might b anyways. It was cool to confirm it tho....especially after the bad month I had had prior due to a close relative's sudden death.
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We were trying. I took the test the morning I was scheduled to start my period. It was negative. That evening, something told me to do another one. It was positive! I had my 2 year old daughter take the test to my husband...who (after figuring out why my 2 yo had a pregnancy test) started running around the house trying to find me. :)
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With my first, I was a few days late and had an idea I was pregnant but I waited as it was coming up to Christmas. I took a test Christmas morning while my hubby was brewing up. It was positive so I stuck a little bow on it and a label saying 'merry Christmas, daddy' and gave it to him when he'd opened all his presents. He was so excited and said it was the best present ever.
This time it was him that made me test as I was 3 days late and he was too excited to wait for me to test :)
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awww these stories are the cutest!mines total opposite..I fainted at work one day ended up on the hospital because I have severe anemia.. they asked for an extra cuz the said my heart rate wasn't normal.the nurse asked if there's any chance I was pregnant I said no I'm on birthth control she said she would check anyway she came back smiling and said ur pregnant and according to the amount of hcg in your blood u r about 14 weeks.I was shocked I called my bf crying his respond was can u abort it today he left me at an abortion clinic and I haven't seen him since..He said he's not ready to be a dad
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xray**
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We weren't tryin at all. But also not using protection. One weekend we took a trip to ATL for a little R & R (rest n relaxation) had some meioses did a little shopping the usual. Made a wrong turn got pulled over he gets arrested I freak out. Judge throws out the case. 2 weeks later it's his birthday I take the test while he's at work, got those lovely 2 lines. Wrapped the test in tissue paper and put it in a gift bag.  That night had dinner with the family gave him the bag and the card says happy birthday daddy... He still has the test!
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My mom helped me make a card and we bought its a boy/ its a girl candy, put one of each in the card and i gave it to him. I wanted to wait till fathers day but felt bad since it wasnt planned. I gave himmt he card and he was instantly nervous and scared. He even went back outside to get sick thats how scared he got but i thought it was kinda cute. NOw we are 20 1/2 wks w our little boy!!!
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We did it together since we were trying for a long time
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9405924 tn?1407809505
My bf and I had been together just about two months.  His baby girl was due in just over a month with his ex.  I bought some gender neutral clothes put them in a gift bag and put the test in the bottom.  I waited for the doctor appointment to confirm I was pregnant.  I gave it to him he looked at the clothes said thanks,  and I told him to look farther. He was stunned!  He thought I had just had a period because I thought that was what was going on.  He was very nervous.  Two babies in such a short time but he is thrilled to be here with experiencing it!
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When i found out i text my hubby and told him guess what and he text me back saying now what happend and i send him a picture of the pregnancy test and told him look what i just found out and he text me back saing really awww he so happy to be a father again
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7879163 tn?1411591644
I cried and threw the pregnancy test at him and he laughed and said baby I don't know how to read this thing
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My hubby knew before I told him but here's our story...I had several positive hpt in june only to find out I was having a miscarriage we were devastated that would've been his first and my third I have two from a previous relationship. When we took our family vacation at the end of August I couldn't even drink a glass of wine ,, after we got home out the blue he said you re pregnant I was confused so I purchased a test it came back positive he said ill look at it but I already know. .. Im a little over 6 weeks and we're excited! !!!!
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10484110 tn?1411177266
Mine is little bit sad. We were trying for months and wasn't working out. October 2012, I felt different and I realized that I was Kate 4 days. So I took the test but not really excited because I had basically given up on being pregnant. Turned out positive as I was thrilled. I drew on a poster saying congrats you're going to be a daddy while he was at work. Left it on the bed, waited for him to walk in and I recorded him read it and ask really like 4 times. We hugged and were happy.  Unfortunately November, I started bleeding with cramps and miscarried. We went through hell and back but made us stronger as a couple. We went straight to trying again and I'm pretty sure as a birthday gift on January I'm got a miracle again lol. I felt different again in February so I took the test, positive. But this time I was terrified.  So I sent him a picture n told me to go check at the clinic to confirm. Since we miscarried the first pregnancy,  we were scared go show excitement the second time. But as time passed god has been with us and were so excited to only have 4 weeks to meet our little boy! !!!!
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