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9062499 tn?1426957962

lost my baby :(

So i posted yesterday complaining about  tightening of my stomach and lower back pain at the same time. Ended up going to hospital to get myself checked. The Dr did a scan to c what was going on . There were about 6 doctors in the same room so thats When I thought something is not right.  What I found out was they couldnt find the heartbeat at 38 weeks so sadly I lost my little angel :(  I couldnt stop crying n the Dr was also in tears who did the scan.
Eventho the Dr was 100percent about the heartbeat i still requested for another scan for my satisfaction n need to go in again  tomorrow if the result is still the same they will induce me to bring on labor.  
Plz ladies Take my advice if u r concerned about anything dont leave it for too long get urself checked ASAP. Otherwise u will lose your bundle of joy just like iv done. My prayers r with all u mommies hope u all have healthy babies.
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9971658 tn?1407743983
I'm so sorry for your loss.
I can't imagine the feelings you must be going through.
I'm not a religious person and do not believe there is any God (I'm an Atheist).

But I do believe things will get better, not today, not tomorrow, not even in a week or month... but slowly you will feel better and better each day, and don't feel bad when you do - it's what is best for you.
And sometime, when times are dark, it is nice to know that it will one day get better, whatever day that might be we don't know..
but knowing this can make your burden easier to carry.

Yes, this will forever be a part of who you are.
Just remember, you're not alone.
I'm sure your doctor can recommend a support group with other people going through the same thing.

Lots of love to you and your family <3
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8793709 tn?1409594060
This is really heart breaking and brings me to tears! I can't imagine what you must be going through right now. But i pray that you find the courage and strength to heal and that god is with you during this difficult time. My heart goes out to you and your family!

i do hope the doctors were wrong and that today's scan shows a heartbeat. praying for a miracle right now.
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That is so heart breaking. I'm sorry. You and your family will be in my prayers.
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My thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time. God bless you all x x x
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Oh im so sorry for you lost. God bless you. :'(
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Same as the rest of the mommies im sorry for ur loss. Cant. Imagen the pain n thoughts... Another chosen Angel. (:(
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