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8623280 tn?1399437316

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I really think I made a wrong decision having a baby by this dude cause I get pregnant and he's the total opposite of the person he was before the pregnancy smh gone all day all the time when he's not at work and I never know where he is I've been miserable since day 1 :-(
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8623280 tn?1399437316
@ericatoday thanx and I wouldn't carry a baby for 9 months and give it up an attachment has already developed was saying my dude actions is making me miserable I have 2 kids already and I love being a mother it's just with my boys dad he's already not their and I didn't wanna have to deal with the same **** twice smh
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7552771 tn?1469929649
She didn't say she doesn't want the baby. She's upset about the guy. I'd say leave him I don't put up with **** like that. But some guys change during pregmancy. Whem y sister got pregnant the last time 9 months ago(she just had her baby) her bf would barely talk to her kiss her they stopped having sex the whole time he was mean to her and then she gave birth now I've never seen such a loving guy.
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There is adoption
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I went threw the same thing befor I got pregnant he was always around then I got pregnant he turned to a awhile s nd got bad on drugs and got mentally a bussive so I left now my bf now is kinda turn ok ng that way to and he new what he got him self in to
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There its a saying : a woman becomes a mother the sec she finds out she pregnant.
A man becomes a father when he holds that baby
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8623280 tn?1399437316
I'm sitting here just crying like this just doesn't make any since
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8623280 tn?1399437316
Don't condone in abortions sorry
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7892775 tn?1395673991
I can relate my husband changed when I got pregnant with our daughter 5 years ago. Just hang ib there you are strong enough to do it. Just think no matter what you will have a beautiful gift from God. Even if it doesn't work out you have something so much more special. The best gift you could ever receive.
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Im sorry. :( just know your always stronger then what you think u are & within time you'll realize that baby is worth all the pain and suffering you might endure. Even tho right now that probably doesn't make it easier right this moment. I hope it alll goes well for you & good luck! :)
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You don't have to keep it
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Awn.
But there is no turning back.
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