I'm a ftm as well. I'm having a boy n he will be circumcised..
I do not plan on breastfeeding, but it's all a preference..
I just want my mom, lil sis, gma n husband in the room.
I am naming my son after my husband but he will not be a jr. He will have a different middle name.
I plan on going natural but I guess we will see when the day comes lol.
I might induce if my son doesn't come on his due date because my husband is in the military n only has a 12 day leave for the birth. I wouldn't want to go over my due date n he still ends up missing it.
Other important things will be shopping for the baby getting all the essentials. Getting hospital bag ready when ur much further along. Etc.
There's absolutely Nothing wrong w planning ahead. I'm a complete procrastinator but when it came to my baby I was planning as soon as I found out.
Haha I loke having a plan too. So these are just my opinion.
Not circumcize(I believed if your born with it keep it, unless its life threatening or dangerous)
Breastfeed for the first couple months
I will let my family in the room during labor until time to push then just the doctors and my baby daddy
Natural
And induce if you're over due by 5+ days
Have you had your first appointment? I haven't and I'm already thinking about these things too, ha ha, but I'm sure doctor can help with some decisions and other questions.