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[mummymelza]

I'm19 weeks pregnant feeling fat and frumpy and gross. We have my bro in laws birthday this weekend and working out if my partner goes by himself or if me and our son go too. I have complete trust n my man but I have been so insecure lately that I don't want him going without me. But he has just said it would be best if we stay home ans he goes alone. The party is 2hour drive away. Now I'm questioning why he doesn't want me there. Hate the emotional and insecure wreck pregnancy makes me. Opinions please?!!

[mummymelza]

What's the point. Try and compromise and you get a pissed off man who doesn't give a flying f*** cause he's maggeted.

[nichole75315]

I'm with u. I trust my man just not females. He's having a bar niiight with my brother in law next week. He let me make the call.. I might not like it but ill deal.

[mummymelza]

I wish I could feel like that. I guess I'm feeling that he's cheated (not on me) once he could do it again with enough alcohol. Also he hasn't initiated sex since I fell pregnant so I'm feeling like he's not attracted to me anymore.  Though when I was pregnant with our first he coyldnt keep his hand off me. Just scares me to think he's you going out somewhere without me and that there will be very attractive girls there. And ill be at home looking after our son. He has told me to come if it makes me feel better but I feel ilike he doesn't want me there cause it means he won't enjoy himself as much. Sorry for all the ranting just got noone else to talk to about it.

[emmaftm]

Me and my bf nearly always go out alone, him with the boys and me with the girls. Despite our past issues (he cheated 7years ago) because i get very jealous if im out with him and im on edge all night, so what if he dances with other girls when im not there, i dance with other boys when hes not there! He only difference is we both know who we want, love and are going home to because we trust each other 10000%...... now im pregnant ive obviously not been out for a while but hes been out twice, i know now that at the age of 30 a night out with the boys really is a night out for him to catch up with friends... me meanwhile at 27 cant wait for a girls night out once baby is born and old enough to staywith grandparents lol

[mummymelza]

Now he's pissed off cause I supposedly don't trust him.  He use to be the most jealous person I've ever met. I couldnt talk toanother bloke without him getting snotty. But now the otherway round and he doesn't get it.F***ing men!!

[Kimejo_81]

I would share your fears with him and tell him you would be more comfortable if u went too. If he's cool.with it awesome if he pushes 'no' I personally would wonder what was up.....I trust my.man too 100% however he.would never tell me no if I.said it would.make.more comfortable. Good luck hun!

[mummymelza]

My thoughts exactly. Glad I'm not the only one thatthinks like that. If it was just family I would be like go for it get as drunk as you want but other girls there who are hot and skanky and not fat and pregnant. Not so keen.

[NatFox]

Oh... It's not a family party?   I think i wouldn't let my partner to go..... If there are girls and that.... I trust him but i don't trust other people  lol

[mummymelza]

:) I know he is. And I know he just wants a night out he hardly ever goes out. I guess I know what his brother's mates are like and what the girls are like. I just feel so unattractive and my mood always makes me think the worst. I'm worried what could happen if he gets really drunk yer I donno. Just insecure. :(

[NatFox]

Maybe he is thinking about you.... He doesn't want you to be tired. And i guess he can be more relaxed when your son is not there.