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It's hard to be excited after miscarriage

So I got pregnant back in feb but miscarried end of April ended up having to have a D&C may 1st well I just found out that in pregnant again, I'm so happy but at the same time scared to death this will be my first child all I want to do is fully enough this pregnancy but scared of losing this baby too. I'm about 6-7 weeks now and I have to wait a while month before my next sono also doc has me on progesterone till I'm 11 weeks. Anyone been through same situation and have a good outcome??
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Thanks y'all it warms my heart to see complete stranger reaching out and keeping me and baby in your thoughts and prayers I'll keep everyone updated I get my hcg levels back on Monday so I pray they are rising like they should
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I had a miscarriage in may of 2013 and got pregnant again in October. I understand where your coming from. I was terrified of losing the baby. The funny thing is I come from a super natural family so my entire pregnancy I've been receiving acupuncture and things like that. I'm now 38 weeks pregnant and waiting for my little prince to finally show up lol.
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I had a miscarriage a few years ago, not quite close to my current pregnancy but I was very scared and constantly worried..  I didn't actually start to relax and not worry so much till I got to 22 weeks when I could feel my son move daily, now I just don't worry an more and know everything will be okay. It's okay to be excited and not so excited at the same time. It's hard to get your hopes up and lose the most important thing you've ever created. But know that faith and prayers will help you through it all! Congrats!!!
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I had a missed miscarriage at 11 weeks in December and now I'm 8 weeks along and definitely nervous about a repeat. Everything is normal so far and though I sort of want to wait I can't help but be excited now!! My honey (and our 3yo son) are so pumped it's hard to even think about what bad things could happen - they keep me focused on how amazing it is.
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Two miscarriages in two years. Every appointment im worried that something was wrong. Now 35 weeks. Cant wait only 35 days to go. Makes it easier now that they are kicking me all the time so I know things are fine.
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I had an ectopic pregnancy and now I am 38 weeks having a c section Wednesday.  I understand how your scared and nervous but just pray and keep your faith strong. That's what got me through.  I was so scared and worried things would go wrong but quickly prayed and asked God to remove all doubts. I will keep you in my thoughts and prays. Everything will work out
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i can relate i had 2 miscarriages recently in dec. of last year. im pregnant again and ive never made it to 9 weeks or heard a heartbeat but i am 8 weeks and 2 days and baby has a strong heartbeat. my dr made me take a baby aspirin everyday of my 1st trimester along alot of prayer. there's hope just try in relax belive me i kno its harder than it sounds. good luck
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I have had 2 miscarriages in 2 years. It is was very hard for me to be excited for this one but I'm finely excited at 27 weeks..I am high risk and I have been on progesterone from day one when I found out I was pregnant. I also had a cerclage put in at 14 weeks because the cause of my last miscarriage was a short cervix.. I also go to the doctors every week.. its a lot but worth it..one thing I am thankfull is no bed rest yet ..just take it one day at a time you will be fine..
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I can relate, I had 2 miscarriages one in Jan 2013 and again in October 2013. In November 2013 I got pregnant, and my ob put me on progesterone I was eleven weeks. The good news is, I found out I'm having twins and I'm now 34 weeks, I have a c-section for July 18th. Me and husband are so happy and we thank God everyday for our girls, so don't worry, beloved it will all work out. I still get worried and scared, I don't think that will go away until I hold my babies. I'm praying for you and your sweet Lil bean.
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I am in the same situation. I had to have a D&C in January because of a missed miscarriage. I am now 9 weeks by LMP but baby is 2 weeks behind. So I am terrified that there won't be a heart beat again and having to wait to have an ultrasound done evey week is nerve racking.
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