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9041091 tn?1410417329

miss my social life

Im 20 weeks pregnant and im starting to get really depressed. Im 24 and I miss going out with my friends and drinking. When I first got pregnant I was beyond excited now I'm upset I feel I should've been more careful and waited. There's nothing I can do now I know she's coming I just don't want to resent her.
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I only feel this way when i see my friends doing things i can't. This year literally all my friends went or are going on vacation and i couldn't join. My hs friends went to Jamaica on a trip i helped planned for one of our girlfriends who graduated with her masters. My bestfriend from middle school invited me to Vegas for memorial day weekend, couldn't go and lastly my cousins went to DR and agai  i couldn't go. I'm very excited to be a mother just dont like how restricted i am while pregnant. My bf and i agreed we will still have a social life and won't let our baby make us loose ourselves. Can't wait to have my little munchkin so i can enjoy him and a social life again
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I feel the same way :-(
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9041091 tn?1410417329
Thanks girls!
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5891248 tn?1406410864
I feel the same way, before pregnancy I finally was able to have a social life after getting a break from school. Smdh.. All and all you are having a beautiful gift be glad some women kill to have babies. I learned that alimg the way too.

In the end it will be worth it. I keep telling myself that too. :-)
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totally know how you feel .. I think I shoulda waited to cuz I wasnt dond with having fun but when I think about it I know my baby will be worth stayin in and out of trouble. plus you can still have some fun when you're done being preg just don't go too wild
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