moody venting

[jackieiam]

FTM 27 weeks 2 days. People keep saying awww you cant be almost 7 months. Look lady just because you turned into Free willy your first pregnancy doesnt mean everyone else does. Im aggravated. I am slight OCD. My hip and back hurts. My legs are swollen. Im hungry. I want to be left alone. But yet im the mean one. I have been giving warnings all day no one listens.*sigh my little girl just doesn't know what to do but curl up when I get super irritated. Anyway anybody else considering kicking their bf/husband out the house for a week so he'll stop trying to be helpful and mess up more things arnd the house. Did I mention we move next week? I question if people truly believe GOD created man before woman bc I promise you I question intelligence of that gender -_- ......thank you im done :)

[jackieiam]

I truly love you ladies my God! Im not the only one! I thought I was crazy. Lol

[craftywiccan]

Meant strong ab muscles, lol. Don't you love autocorrect.

[craftywiccan]

I'm the same way in regards to how big I am. I'm almost 30 weeks and everyone says there is no way I'm that far along because I barely have a belly. When I asked my doctor, she said it's because I have really good posture and steering ab muscles. I'm really getting tired of all the people who say things like 'you're going to blow up soon', 'you have no idea what pain is until you have that kid', 'you're pregnant, you can't do that' etc. Most of these people haven't had kids for 10 plus years too. I keep just wanting to scream at them that technology has changed and your memory isn't as good as you think. Also there is a big difference between someone who was healthy and in shape prior to pregnancy and didn't use it as an excuse to eat for two and someone who wasn't that has spent the last 9 months on their butt eating everything in sight.

[LeeshaMiranda]

Oh my gosh. Shanz04, your ordeal with vacuuming reminds me of ours with the cat litter. I have to nag and nag him to clean the cat litter because we're not supposed to do it while we're pregnant. Argh. He lets it go for so long that it grosses me out so much! The poor cats!  I finally just do it and then he stops me and finishes it. Still, it's not that hard to just scoop it out.

[Shanz04]

Yeah I'm right there with ya hun.  I'm pretty sure if my boyfriend doesn't vacuum the floor soon he's either going to have to go stay with his mom for a while or I'm gonna shove the vacuum where the son don't shine. I can't stand dirty floors and last time I tired vacuuming for whatever reason I started cramping dr said no more

[3rdNdone]

I am with you. My husband will "clean up", which is a wonderful act of kindness. But when he's done I can't find anything and I have to call him a thousand times and he doesn't remember where he put anything. I love that he wants to help but it always ends up being more  work.

[varschr]

I'm right there with you. I'm 7 months 3 days and everyone says that to me too. I've put on 25lbs but I'm normally 5`8 120lbs. Everyone says I'm super tiny. It's annoying and I also hate hearing the just wait stories. Or when I was pregnant blah blah...I don't care. This is my pregnancy...And yes my boyfriend drives me crazy and I'll also give warning signs for people to leave me alone but they seems to keep wanting to poke at me...then I snap and I'm the bad guy. Ugh. And then I'm pregnant and crazy...No you ******** need to leave me the hell alone!! Not to mention my boyfriend already has a child and his mother likes to bring up his ex girlfriend and compare my pregnancy to hers. I want to punch her in the face and she does it ALL the time. That's my rant. Lol. Don't worry girl I know what your going through all the way

[LeeshaMiranda]

I know what you mean. I gained almost exactly the "suggested" amount of weight with my last pregnancy & everyone always said how tiny I was. I worked in a clothing store that sold maternity clothes, so all the other women would be all mad because I was farther along than they were but looked smaller. I just had a really great pregnancy and still felt good enough to be active. However, I didn't really feel moody and I didn't start to swell until really late in the pregnancy. I'm about to start the second trimester this time and I'm so nauseous, super fatigued, I can barely keep up with our one year old during the day & my hubby doesn't understand why the dishes aren't done. I also started this pregnancy 20 lbs heavier than I was at the beginning of the last one. I just feel fat and tired & I think it's hard for him to really understand because everything was so perfect the last time.

[Lilmummyems]

Wow u said exactly what I'm thinking at the moment haha I'm trying to get my bf to do the dishes... Never going to happen but he will happily make a huge mess once I've done them! Except I've got xtra cleaning I've already got 3 kids to clean up after plus him wish he would grow up!