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my sad story

I am now a single mom not by choice but by circumstances this is my first pregnancy where I'm suppose to find joy and be pampered by my husband but now that is not the case my husband has decided to leave us and go for a new woman on top of that he just engaged her yet we are still married. She has a son who is about four so he preferes to leave his own flesh and blood for another woman on top of that no one is supporting him even his own parents are unhappy and against everything yet he does not give a damn.  I am praying daily that my pain and my crying does not hurt my child in anyway but atleast May is around the corner I just need courage in order to have a healthy baby. I am really hurting and seeing them daily is a killer.
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Thankyou guys well appreciated I'm trying plus marking will occupy my mind and prayer and dwelling in the word it is well with my soul
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Once that baby comes you will be so preoccupied u wont be thinking about it that much. Fk him, fk him to fkng hell. Let karma takr care of it. Better and bigger things will come ur way.  Time heals,  a man like that wont find happiness,  but u on the other hand will. Find some thing or someone to keep you busy and occupied
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Please be strong for your child. Please seek out help if you need but you need to be strong.
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7446981 tn?1393216927
Excuse my typos lol^
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7446981 tn?1393216927
Well it must be painful to lose the one you love. But remember you have a child to be strong for. U dont know the ends and outs of your relationship but when one person is not happy why try to force it?  Maybe you guys need this time apart rught now? Give it some time and take care of yourself and baby. You never know what the future could bring.. you guys could make up or you could find someone who makes you so much happier than he ever did. Regardless your baby us number one. Good luck
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7720624 tn?1402712283
Sorry
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Im so sorry u havn to go through somthing like this :(  somtimes life gets so ruff but know that things will get better when I was pregnant with my first his father went to prison and its been 13 years and hes still ther it really sucked at the time but I found such a great man that took on a child like his owne and  I just cant imagine how life would be if things didn't happen the way things did im now on baby #5 I know thers not much any one or I can say that will take the hurt away but  just know that things will all work out in the end dont let this take your joy away you will find someone who wont ever leave or hurt u ♡♡♡
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7001988 tn?1392134797
So sorry 2 hear this dear. May you find love & stregnth from within. Wish you well dear!
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Im sad you have to go through this!!!! I hope you have a support system surrounding you. You have been blessed with an amazing gift and he obviously isn't someone that is deserving of this beautiful gift. God has a plan for you. Keep the faith. It really can only go up from here love.
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Try not to stress I had the same thing happen with my first child my husband left me for another woman when I was 7 and a half months. Everyone was mad at him. I was very hurt and lost a lot of weight. But I stayed strong and have s beautiful 3 year old son now and I am back together with my husband pregnant 21 weeks with our second so hang in there. I feel your pain but just remember to stay strong and if you can find a counselor to talk with that really helped me.
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7602406 tn?1402367748
Wow who does that crying is definitely not going to harm the baby. But I was always told you can't keep a man who doesn't want to be kept. I know this is very hard for you but you're going to have to worry about yourself and the baby now. After you have the baby get him for spousal and child support.  That's so cruel for him to do that to you but try to be strong and I pray you and your baby have a wonderful future without him. And what goes around comes around so he better pray by the time he realizes what he put you through that you have forgiven him.
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7757724 tn?1396279586
That sounds terrible, anyone that could do that obviously has a ton of issues.  Just know it's not you! Don't think for a second you weren't good enough. I wouldn't doubt it if he does the same to her before long. You do not deserve this, just know you are not alone. There are a lot of heartless men that do this to PERFECTLY GOOD women. The best you can do is raise your child the best you can on your own. You will find someone new one day. Again Im very sorry your going through this. Pray and find peace.
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Dont like to see or hear stuff like this I know your pain but my situation is a lil different when I was pregnant with my first baby I lost my baby daddy in a car wreck when I was 5 months so I feel your pain i use to try not to cry scared of hurting my baby I lost weight n everything but I just kept praying n praying and I had a healthy 7 pound baby boy so just keep your head up its gon be ok it just takes time
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7406493 tn?1453999212
What a jerk! I'm sorry for your pain I'm sure your baby is going to be fine .But find strength in knowing your doing whats best for your baby you'll get your blessings fir that n much more! Besides you don't want a jerkoff like that  in your life any longer giving bad influence to your child as it grows.he and her will love to see you unhappy if you can steer  clear of them!! They will BOTH get what they deserve. Live your life for the future god had to remove the trash to make room for gold.Hard as it is there's someone out there for you that you probably haven't even meet .just focus making life better for you & baby put your big girl shoes on cause you can do this! Depend on you  cause baby sure is & everything else is extra .My 1st kids dad left right after I had her I saw it coming well although I thought it wasn't cm possible I meet & fell in love with a wonderful man I'm now engaged to and since my kid was 2 we have been a family she's 11 now ! Oh & my "babys dad" is still moving from woman to woman no good luck @ all he never comes back except birthdays & Christmas lol.but see the sunshine through the rain because everything happens for a reason you'll get a happy ending just watch! I KNOW IT HURTS  but it will get better just remember the beautiful baby you'll have  he isn't the one that got away be glad a person like that is gone .youn dont deserve that. I'm sorry that  happened so sad. Stay strong!!!
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So sorry to hear what you are going through. Jusy remember everything happens for a reason, you may not understand it now but god has a plan for you and your baby. In due time you will heal, it won't be easy though. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger. Please try to stay strong for your baby. I will keep you in my prayers.
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7678907 tn?1400809113
Oh my goodness, I am so sorry to hear this. This will make you stronger though. A stronger woman and a stronger mommy!
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I am so sorry you are going through this. Try to stay strong, your kids need that more than anything. I know it sounds cliche, but you will find someone better. Your family deserves better and the pain will fade over time. I'll pray for your family.
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