no explanation...

[dk2211]

Hey ladies..a little advice & comfort needed. Before I got pregnant the guy I was with and have been with for 4 years now decided we wanted to have a baby together. More him than me actually... In a nutshell when I found out he was excited at first and then dropped off the face of the earth in a blink of an eye. I'm not sure why but throughout my first trimester I was severely heartbroken and feeling really abandoned. I've spoken to him twice and I am now 14 weeks. I have no explanation for his actions but I'm very hurt by all of this. He has seemed to have moved on and forgotten all about me. I'm doing a lot better now but it still pricks at me every once in a while. Idk what to do anymore other than focus on me and the baby. It ***** that it has ended this way and he seems to want no part of my life or this child's :( what to do what to do...

[dk2211]

Thank you

[angelbabymike]

Sorry your going thru this. ..I went thru my second pregnancy without him and it was hard. .. but I'm thankful that my family was a big support. .... don't stress and find some family support,  being pregnant can be hard with no support and you havea precious baby that you need to enjoy your pregnancy for:) my prayers will be with you

[KristenC04]

so sorry to hear you're going through this. I'm going through the same thing only I haven't heard a word from the dad. your in my prayers. best of luck and big hugs!

[lexus3232]

Keep moving forward keep looking to future just dont forget what he has done u can build a great life for u and baby ...he will nvr hv a great life nor be a gd man for any women why because he abandoned his child !!Enjoy ur belly prepare for baby and its his lost.. Remember any man can get a woman pregnant but takes a Real man to be a dad.He will come back ..just pray on it and be strong gd luck

[dk2211]

It is his loss and that's the sad thing about it! Honestly I'm more embarrassed that I choose him to be the father of my child more than anything. Thank you for your positive words. I will be a great mother :)

[TippaShay]

That's his loss you did nothing wrong just raise your child the best you can and let him remain where he is. If he disappeared treat him like a ghost very invisible don't stress yourself over the what ifs and things like that.  Be a good mother to your baby. Eventually he will try to wiggle his way back in your life but I couldn't allow myself to be with him because he just left when you needed him most. You are strong and you got this mama:)

[Ropretty]

I was hurt for along time too. Who knows why men do what they do but him being a great father now im completely over it. I had so many plans as to how I thought the pregnancy was gon be but I learned my lesson never plan anything. Just focus on baby everything is going to work out.

[dk2211]

I'm not so stressed anymore.. I guess I'm still in wonder why he did this to me. All I ever did was love him. Thanks for the replies. It means a lot for a listening ear and feedback ♥

[Ropretty]

Honey don't stress urself. Me and my husband went thru the same thing. We were together 4 years and wanted a child together since the beginning. Long story start he left me when I was about 12 weeks. I was devastated and stressed out I could not get over it cuz we never was apart. Anyway for unknown reasons I ended up going in 10 weeks early another stress added. Fast forward almost 3 years later we got it together got married when our son was about 4 months and he is the best dad ever. Now im on baby #2 with him although we are separated he supports me during this pregnancy and gets his son 4 days out the week to give me breaks. We just can't get along when im pregnant but im completely happy 6 weeks left and I can't wait to meet my prince.

[rhondam79]

So sorry for your struggles. You will be a great mom i am sure. Best wishes and hugs to you. ♡