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Ughh(a vent)

Im so sick of my hubby telling me im not helping him money wise...umm wtf does he expect me to do??? Go out and make someone hire me im almost 8months pregnant with his daughter and he continues to fix his mouth to tell me im not helping him i can see if i had money and i just wasn't helping him or i wasnt pregnant and i was just sitting around not doing anything then that would be a different story but that's not the case at all....im the type of woman that will work her butt off to provide for my family i hate sitting around not doing anything on a daily bases and ppl treating me like im handicap...im sorry it's so long but does anybody else feels this way or is it just me????
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I told my husband on Wednesday I quit my job thinking he wouldn't be supportive. He just said when you can't work anymore you can't. He's been great throughout this pregnancy but with me not working anymore I'm afraid I'm putting too much presure on him to work more. He already works 12 hours a day 5 days a week and 8 hours on Saturdays. I feel lazy now even though I cook still at 30 weeks.
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Criasly????according to me men shld b providing evrythng in the house bt nowadays its viceversa.u cant imajin am 7mnths n i take care of evrythng yet i say am  married.am soo damn tired n planning to move out n live by myself.men r soo selfish n evil
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I hear it everyday. I was "laid off" once they found out I was pregnant. So it's really not my fault. I'd still be working. I actually looked for another job up until you could tell I was pregnant. It's so annoying that any time I complain about something hurting or that I get up and move so slow he thinks it's funny to make fun of me.
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Maybe your hubby is scared?  The baby will be coming soon and maybe he's feeling insecure about his ability to provide and care for you and the baby and his way of dealing is complaining instead of admitting he's worried.
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I'm a full time carer for my 85 yr old nan-witch I do around the kids school hours & in half terms I take them with me, I've got a bar job at weekends & pay what ever I can towards bills YET my husband still tells me I need to work more hours!! I'm like yea OK I'll stick a broom up my arse & clean up as i go aswellI!!!! Seriously men just don't get it :|
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If that was my husband id b..tch slap in him in the back of the head and knock some sense into his dumba..ss. Sorry girl! He'll change once the baby gets hereĀ”
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It's crazy for mine or anybody else hubby or bf to be saying that..i would it expect it from my brother not him..im just tired of it that need to talk a walk in our shoes and see how they would feel lol
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Seriously...your 8 months pregnant!  I'm 8 and a half months pregnant and I barely can walk because of serious hip and back pain. You need to tell your other half that your doing all you can and all you should be doing at this time. Resting and doing things to a minimum.

Take it easy ladies and listen to your bodies. X
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I hear it everyday i am 8 months and high-risk so they wont let me work its not by choice. I get told im lazy now when i am on bedrest. So no its not just you his whole perspective will change once you have the baby.
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