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over it

Im over being pregnant im getting bad love handles and a big fat belly I cant even stand looking at myself in the mirror im 29 weeks and I look like in 38 or 40 full I hate this do much I done with it I cant do most of the things I use to how can u jump start labor sooner then later
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I'm the same. The love handles stink I've been trying to lose mine from my 4 year old. With him I was 120 and went up to 200. It was awful. I never got back below.140.  when I had.my second son. I  gained 40 with.him. this time I started off at 168ish and Now at 31 weeks I'm a sad 195 I can't stand it. But this is my last baby so I'm telling myself it took almost 3 1/2 years to get back to 140 so I'll expect at least a year or two this time. Plus I'm breastfeeding this time around which I've never done so I hear that will help. But.I.am Blythe a exerciser.  Never have been. So at least our babies are a good reason to get fat..  There's.always that: -)
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Thanks
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Yeah thats all ive been having to milos and ice alot
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I hear ya mummy! I'm in Brisbane QLD and it is so hot lately! Doesn't help that this baby is like my own personal heater. I had a winter baby first time so don't remember being this uncomfortable. I'm taking lots of cool showers, drinking lots of cold milo, and enjoying some icey poles. It's about all I can do at the moment. Hang in there!
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I hear that after your first a lot of women's belly show sooner in pregnancy and get larger as they go along. And can lose it after okay but it just is bigger and more uncomfortable!! Props to you for having that many children and still working and making a living!! Haha I'd say a little venting is just fine in your condition lol!! Pregnancy is miserable in the heat! I don't know about humidity cuz I live in a desert.. but heat makes everything extra swollen... and difficult. It's something that you don't get used to while pregnant cuz there is no way to get comfy! I am pregnant with my first and I don't know how you do it!

And lastly @mummabeart, I don't think she meant she is trying to stay thin.. sometimes women just need an outlet,  and relinquish it to other women who are in similar circumstances :) you gave some genuine advice about the timely birth concerns, of course, but next time articulate things so people know you're actually commenting to help, instead of critisize them for seeking support..

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I'm in broome WA I so get what u mean this stinking humidity is the crappiest! I hate having to leave the house it's so hot! It makes me so frustrated at everything!
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Hey I know all about this. This is my 4th child and I do get thin after im normaly a size 10 but im in the heat in Australia gold coast right now and im having one of those days so dont go saying to me to harden up. Thanks you all you other mummies for the support but people csn be so god dame rude on here if you cant say something nice then shut up
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Honestly harden up your pregnant did you expect to stay thin??

Just eat healthy and keep up light excersize and dont try snd induce labour untill at least 37 weeks its extremely unsafe for your baby.
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Hang in there momma your body is creating a human.  Its going to look different,  but that doesn't mean afterwards you can't go back to your sexy self;-) plus baby needs to stay in there at least till 37weeks or eles it might not be strong and healthy.  Lungs dont fully developed until 36weeks. You dont want to harm your beautiful baby, delivering too early. You are beautiful♡ hang in there♡
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I'm right there with you hun I'm getting to the point where I just want to dissappear I know I'm growing a baby inside of me but it's just getting so frustrating
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♡ I hear ya mama!
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