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7530804 tn?1398546771

Sex and Vibrators

I am 9wks 3 days and wanting to have sex constantly, numerous times a day and my husband is getting to the point where he doesn't want to and complains he's raw. Sorry for the over share but I'm getting angry! Is it safe to use my vibrator when he gets tired even if we've already had sex or use it multiple times? I read a few things on google and I read so many different things about only use external stimulation instead of internal as well and I just want multiple opinions. I don't have a Dr appointment for 3 weeks and don't want to wait.

Thank you!
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7530804 tn?1398546771
Thank you all soooo much!! I've had a very good pregnancy so far, no sickness or issues or bleeding or anything so I'm waiting for all the bad to come but in the mean time I really want to enjoy my crazy sex drive. So glad a lot of you have been successful :) I definitely keep it clean, I have OCD and dirty vibrators have always worried me, also I don't go crazy with it. I figure if my husband can get rough, the vibrator won't do much but wanted to ask. Thank you all again!
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6832165 tn?1389701390
I've used my toys whilst pregnant and my baby is ok. Haven't heard it's not safe I mean as long as they are cleaned properly etc :)
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Using toys during sex are no problem at all! If you want to use them then go for it! My boyfriend and I do all the time! Internal and external. There should be no problem if your pregnancy is normal.
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I wouldn't get overly aggressive with it and make sure it's clean but if uve had no issues with ur pregnancy go for it I used mine quite a bit my 1st child n a couple times this time
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I'm not sure about toys but maybe the shower head. I have done this a few times and been very successful.  Plus its safe.
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I think you should calm down a little take kt easy cause u could cause bleeding if u over do it
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5787844 tn?1376078984
Im gonna say yeah. Just make extra sure that the toy is clean! Hubs and I use them in our regular routine/rotation and have for more than this pregnancy. I would limit use to maybe a couple times a day. When hubs and I stared dating we used to over do it all the time and Id be hurting lol
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To be honest I think you'd be fine,  of course you want to make sure the vibrator you are using isnt that jelly type kind, they can leave off a burnt rubber smell. Some are super cheap and have weird chemicals. Also a lot of insurances have a nurse hotline, id ask if its bothering you.
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