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8526246 tn?1405601876

people should have more respect for the names parents pick

I hate it that people ask what are we naming our son and when we share they make fun of it like idiots. I picked a name and my husband picked the middle name , he picked Maximus which he loves and thinks its it's a strong name. I didn't warm up to  the name at first but I had to respect his choice . well today my brother asked what we were naming our baby and when I said Maximus he laughed and said "oh like gluteus maximus lol" and we both just said "yeah sure like that" smh. Does anyone else get this also? Is there something wrong with that name for reals?
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Same here. We're naming our daughter Rebecca after his deceased mother. But she'll be called Rebecca!  No Becky or Becca! And if someone tries to butcher her name I'm definitely gonna correct them. Lol
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7953414 tn?1400159930
People are so stupid!!! I love the name Maximus! So it's a strong name! I met this guy that worked at Wells Fargo and his name was Sir. He was tall and had such confidence that i thought his name was a great fit!
My husband and I are naming our baby Dante. Still unsure on the middle name. But I'm so sick and tired of people cheering for Dante's Inferno and whatnot. I hate that they relate him to hell. Also, my friends dog's name is Dante...ugh. good thing I don't see him anymore lol. But my husband loves that name and we are going with that.  I just told him, tell people we don't know the name because I'm so annoyed with everyone!!!
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Yes! I'm due in 8 weeks. And my sons name is Gabreil Eugene. The thing is, its the opposite. The father picked the first name Gabreil. and I picked Eugene because its a family name. Any time people ask and I give them the name they say they love it. But the father says *oh you don't have to say that* and he makes fun of Eugene because its an older name.
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Its ok girls!! Everyone is going to have something to say!! My own MOTHER asked what i was nameing my daughter n i said Olivia LaShea bc i want to be able to cal her Olive bc she is going to be a beautiful mixed baby!! (: im white n my bd is black. She was likr OMG NOO bc the. ppl will make fun of her nd call her black olive :( i cried bc my own mother can be tht much of a *****.. but only I am going to call her Olive. Plus i dont think ppl would do tht :/
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Ive not told anyone the names that we have picked for the same reason. I dont expect everyone to like them but please keep opinions to yourself. We like them and thats all that matters. Xx
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Amen sister!! This is exactly why my husband and I decided we are not telling ANYONE what names we are thinking about until the baby comes and has a name!  People can be so stupid.
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7172456 tn?1403092946
I like max, it's really cute! And to the mumma above who is naming her baby annastasia, I looooove that name!! :)
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It sounds fine. When people talk about my baby names I tell them it's my baby and I will name it what I want. Then I make a snide comment on how they should have choose a different name for their kid....or I say when they have kids they can name them what they want.
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7358510 tn?1427032173
I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU MEAN. its so offending!!! any name you choose some one will rhyme it with some thing stupid. My llittle brother is 18 and he asked me what i was calling my baby. and i said im thinking about calling him uriah. and he said oh like pervy sage off naruto. or like urine . :/ some people just have no respect.
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I stopped telling people my babies name not because they made fun necessarily but they had an opinion and I was getting to the point of wanting to punch ppl in the face! Lol People really need to respect the fact that u chose a name for whatever reason u did so they need to shut the heck up if they have nothin good to say. Ugh! U already have to deal with enough...don't worry about people like that just keep it to urself if u have to! Good luck mommy :)
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We're having a boy & had already decided to name him after my husband & his father-he'll be David John III. Its not my favorite, but it was important to him & its at least a straight forward name. I just hope people don't call him DJ-I hate that! But if we were having a girl, we were planning to keep her name a secret until after she was born because its unusual, but we love it & I didn't want anyone else's opinions or snide comments. We're holding on to it though-in case David get's a sister in a couple years.
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People are dumb! I had a name picked out for a girl I love Adalyn and every one is like that name sound mumbled and dumb. But we are having a boy and I'm going crazy becauset husband and I can't decide on a name and everyone and their brother keeps throwing ideas out there and it's driving me nuts! I'm to the point when we do decide on a name I'm not telling a soul cause I'm sure someone will have a comment about it.
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You are the parent and will be the one caring for that child; therefore the decision of the name is between you and your husband. A few people have talked about my daughter's middle names "Marie-Ruth". They say they are old names but they were her Great Great Grandmothers names (Marie is my side and Ruth is my fiancée's side). Both woman were strong and paved the way for our families. I am proud to give my daughter those names. So, you hold your head up and tell the world of Mr. Maximus!
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People are dumb! Acting as if they got a say in what you are naming your child. Love the name Maximus. Wanted to name my baby that. My next baby is going to be named after my dog lol. She has a human name but people think its stupid I wanna name my kids after my dog. I dont care what people say I love my dog and she has been very special to me and name Leo or Leona is a good name.
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5891248 tn?1406410864
Maxiums is not a name to be made fun of. Some people have such dull boring names. I dont see what the probably is thats a cute little name and you can call him Max. I went to school with a guy with that name.

Dont let peoples dumb opinions get to you. I want to name my daughter Anastasia and my old friend had said oh their is a women with that name is 50 shades of grey trying to be a perv I guess. I love that name and Im.keeping it.


Your son will grow well into his name and be confident, some people have dumb names and no backbone. Smdh
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I love the name Maximus!  Our sons name Is Maxx and wish we had named his full name Maximus... I suggested that name to someone on a post about masculine names :)......Every name we think of someone has something negative to say ..from now on I won't tell anyone our ideas till she arrives and they sure as heck better not make fun of it then!!!
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People can be rude when they think they are bring funny and clever. Maximus is a great name.
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8526246 tn?1405601876
That's a very good idea! I will do the same after this. I have only told my brother and sister but that's it till now I guess. Its non of other peoples business anyhow but I don't want my husband feeling bad or awkward. Thanks
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I love the name max. My husband and I are refusing to tell anyone our name because of that reason of people judging and putting thier opinions out there. It already happened with girl names that I chose, luckily we are having a boy and won't tell anyone until he's here and named.
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8526246 tn?1405601876
@ aruth right??? I mean if they don't like it oh well but why find ways to make fun of it? Makes no sense.  Thank you
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@Lizzie..gotta love family!! One day he'll forget he ever thought this way. Come up with a list of crazy names and give him some perspective lol!!
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8526246 tn?1405601876
@ Novembermommy very true
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I love the name Sawyer! A close friend of ours named their son Sawyer or else it would be on my list!!
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8526246 tn?1405601876
@ jess lol true! Its the middle name and we already call him Max also. I think its so cute now and I love it but I felt so bad for my husband and I wanted to karate kick my brother for being so stupid about it.
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