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4447476 tn?1399396565

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Hello all :) my fiance and I just found out new years eve we are expecting again! I want so bad to be excited, but this is my 7th pregnancy, and we have 3 children. The last baby we last was new years eve 2012 at 11wks 5days :( and it was an extremely scary experience.. At this point I dont even remember what a "normal" pregnancy feels like. Im so scared that every little thing freaks me out, and the doc office I go to dont see patients until their 8-10wk. So, I guess my question is, is there anybody out there that has experienced multiple miscarriages n successfully carried after? What did you do to keep calm and positive? Im desperate for positive ..
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4447476 tn?1399396565
Well, I have recently found out I have a subchorionic bleed :( that's what I had the last time n ended up miscarrying n lost a tremendous amount of blood.. I'm extremely scared, but still trying to stay positive. I pray it goes away n doesn't cause any major problems, but I can't help to think about the nightmare that happened last time.. thank u all for ur kind words n well wishes..
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Good luck and will be praying all goes well for you and baby!
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4447476 tn?1399396565
Thank u all for ur kind words and sharing ur experiences.. I know its rough to talk about. I was able to get ahold of my ob (thanks to my fiance working with her husband) n she meet me at the hospital n did an ultrasound n blood work to ease my mind a little. So far everything is right on schedule with my last period! Measuring 5wks 5days as of yesterday. I go back next week for another ultrasound just to check up. Im praying for a speedy pregnancy n healthy babies for all of us! I hope this one sticks, this is our last time trying either way..
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I am on pregnancy 8 I have 1 healthy 4 year old and I am 12 weeks today. I still freak out about every little thing. I am constantly calling my doctor about what I dont think is correct. Just hang in there. I have found that as long as my symptoms are all there I feel a little better but other wise a warm bath and a good nap help me. Good luck and try to stay positive I know its hard :/
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this is my 7th pregnancy as well and I have 3 kids as well then 3 miscarriage after those three I am now 20 week and everything is going fine
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I found out I was pregnant two days after Christmas. This is my fourth pregnancy and I have one child. After my son I had two miscarriages and I feel the same way. I am only 6 weeks and 2 days, but constantly freak out if the baby is healthy and if i am doing everything right. Having a miscarriage is losing a child and hurts.I too am in the same boat as you.
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I called last week to schedule an appointment, and since I dont currently have insurance for myself, the (very rude) lady told me that i had to wait for the finacial office to call me. That was last monday n i still have recieved no call. Ive honestly thought about going up to the hospital to have levels checked n ease my mind a little, but im not sure. My last miscarriage at almost 12wks was not only sudden n very scarey, but the people at the hospital near me were what I feel less than caring, if that makes sense. Im so frustrated with it all which isnt helping
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Sorry to hear about your losses. Have you had your hormone levels checked before? Since you are high risk your doctor may make an exception and see you earlier/more frequent. Praying that this pregnancy works out for you.
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