feeling different :(

[fany014]

So at first I was so impatient & kept saying I want my baby to get here so bad , but now I don't know about that. I kinda feel like I can wait & I just don't feel ready :/ I don't want it to come yet & I only have 1 month left. Idk why I feel like this I was so excited. .

[fany014]

I told him the same thing! He can be supportive but there's days where he's just though! I'm just like can you please just chill out & hear me out .. but thank you :) that's all I want to be is a good mom. I hope I get that feeling most moms get when they first see their baby <3

[Sammie85]

Not to be rude but thats extremely insensitive he should be a lot more supportive and understanding because making you feel bad or guilty for the way you feel is only making it worse for you...There's nothing wrong with you your just a first time mom so that means up until now youve only had to worry about you and now all of a sudden your responsible for a tiny life and thats a lot of pressure for anyone hell this is baby #4 for me an I to feel as if im not ready sometimes...your going to be a great mommy believe it or not motherly instinct is a real thing and when shes born it'll kick in and before you know it itll be hard for you to remember wat life was like before her...

[fany014]

@sammie85 I really hope it goes away & has nothing to do with postpartum depression , whatever is called lol.... but thankyou your response made me feel relieved. I just feel like it's wrong for me to feel this way. My husband tells me that it's not normal & he doesn't want to hear me say it again . He tells me to toughen up & stop being a baby that it's gonna be born regardless if I want too. Sometimes he gives a lil tough love & it does not help the situation

[Sammie85]

A baby requires constant care an 100% of your attention so its pretty common to have anxiety as your big day approaches...if you weren't anxious and a lil scared then that would be a cause for concern. Being responsible for a tiny helpless baby is kind of a big deal and the fact that your nervous is a good indication that your going to be a great mommy. It just shows that you care if you didn't then youd have no reason to be concerned...Good luck :)

[keaij]

Its more of built up anxiety, between you being alone before baby and now baby comes and its a nervousness. It normal it will go away

[brit333]

I have 3 weeks left and feel like it's gone so fast!! Thankfully after my appt today my Dr said nothing has happened yet so that should mean I have a couple weeks at least. :-)

[fany014]

Does it say Why I feel like this around this time? @keaij

[keaij]

I feel the same way, Im like yay baby ! Than Im like no wait :-( Its really normal I got the what to expect when your expecting, and its normal around this time to feel that way. Aww one month is so close :-)

[Jen9588]

Its ok thats normal i feel like that too sometimes, we're ready and our blessings will soon be here im only 26 weeks but feel like i can use some extra time but dont sweat it we'll be okay