pregnancy dreams: sex with others????

[kitahurst]

Good morning ladies!

I'm a married 28 y/o 4 mo. pregnant with my first baby. I love my husband to absolute smithereens and couldn't imagine life (or sex) with anyone else.

However, I've noticed since getting pregnant (and especially in the 2nd tri), I have very frequent dreams about sex with other people ;/ sometimes people I know, sometimes strangers. Sometimes men, sometimes women.

Last night, it was Joseph Gordon Levitt the majority of the dream then we joined a huge bisexual orgy :O not gonna lie, was pretty hot, lol.

Just need to know the answer to this  infamous question: Is this normal?!?!?! Or is this subconscious talking??? Haha.

I would never act out these things in reality but the frequency and detail of my dreams is alarming... Fascinating almost.

[manda0311]

My thing is a threesome with me, my hubby and another girl, it's so weird because I've never had any desire what so ever for anything like that but for some reason I dream about it like every other night. These hormones are no joke this time around!

[kitcat2015]

Weird dreams are normal.  Last night I dreamt my husband and I got into a fight where he took off, had a one night stand with a male bartender at a grocery store, asked to meet me there, told me that it wasn't really cheating unless it was with another woman....and then I woke up completely turned on and wanted sex.

It's quite weird!!

[MouseyBear]

I had a dream I had sex with professor Snape from the Harry Potter series lol. Embarrassing...

[MaritzaToMane]

Lol...OMG. this is happening to me too and overall I am dreaming all day about having sex. My husband is scared to have sex so I guess it might be lack of it...lol. this is so funny and sad at the same time.

[stina_rina]

Meee too and i hate it! It makes me feel so weird! Alot are with other people..my ex..women...and the weirdest one was sheldon from tv's the big bang theory hahah i woke up like WHATTTTT??

[kitahurst]

@liselmarie LOL right? Trust me, I ain't complaining. Those dimples.... Le sigh ;)

Thanks for the reassurance ladies. Cool to see how crazy our hormones get us. And honestly there's no reason to feel guilty for what men do consciously, not subconsciously like us (fantasizing of others) haha :)

[erin_loren]

It's normal. But I've had those dreams my whole life. Well before pregnancy. I'm also happly married and I have no intrest in being with anyone else but these dang dreams will pop up once in a blue moon. Ugh, I hate them!

[0_LING_0]

I have been having them too and wondering if its normal also. I even had one with my boss.... Which is a woman!! And by no means am I attracted to women at all. Its so weird and disturbing.. Even in the dream. Its so hard to go to work and look at her, awkward!!!

[sb530]

Me too! Many include ex ' s for years ago.

[weezy789]

I have frequent sex dreams about former lovers and a lot of lesbian dreams.. They're just dreams, they don't mean anything. The best part is waking up mid-orgasm:)

[babybrown2]

Just enjoy!I know I have :)

[Bri102]

Very normal. Since pregnant ive gotten to have sex with some of my biggest crushes over the years! Ive had lots of sex dreams and now have fantasies i never thought i had. I went through a time where most of my dreams were sexual. Then nightmares. Now just weird. I had a dream that me and the cast of greys anatomy were being attacked my tornadoes sent from supermans home planet.

[LiselMarie]

I wouldn't complain about a sex dream involving JGL. Js. :)

[love_being_his_mrs]

Ya normal. Just a dream brought to you by hormonal overload. I wouldn't read too much into it!

[Queeny01]

They are just dream.I understandyou feel guilty because I do the same thing with my husband.But with me it is always my ex boyfriend.So I get it love but it is just a dream.

[olejjm]

I'm so glad you said this. Me too!!! I talked to my friend about it, and it was normal for her, too. Crazy what pregnancy does to our minds!