pregnant and dealing with babymama drama!

[missladyof4]

My husbands baby mama is so rude and thinks he owes her the world. She's always asking for Money, always says rude things to me. Text me when she found out I was pregnant and said my pregnancy isnt going to Fix my void in my relationship. She dosent know anything about my relationship she just assume they dont work so we wont. Its not my business she wont file child support , but he takes care of his kids, anything they need he buys. This is are 4th kid together you think shes used to it by now. She thinks her kids get short end of the stick when in reality Its mine they get Hand me down, clothes, toys etc. In just done being nice. She threatened me when she found out about the pregnancy. She just wants control thats she hasent filed for child support so she can say when and where he can see his children. He never gets them any holidays. She is so spineless and in tired of it. She got pregnant a year ago just because I have kids with him just to rub in his face she has people in and out of her place and uses her cars, but demands he pay for her gas and electricity. Last saturday I went out dancing with my husband before I get all huge, and she called me a bad mother. My husband said she did the same thing. Im sorry but I needed to vent. Anybody deals with this crap? Am i wrong for the way I feel?

[aishj84]

I feel ya my husbands ex was a psycho b**** ! He had to change his number cuz of her abuse and the kids weren't even wif her they were wif her mum, she just couldn't stand him being wif anyone else

[marcra]

He can petition for child support and should. Only because exes like that will NOT stop. My hubby and I have been together for 11yrs and married 9 of them. We pampered the ex in the beginning in that way and she will not stop.  Its better all around for you, all the kids and your hubby

[babylove514]

I have three kids well one just passed and the other two.are my boy friends and his baby mamma is a mess.She told me I can keep her lite bratts she don't want them she wants him and that she's going to get him one way or abother. So what we did was get full custody of the kids and the got a restraining order against her because of the threats she keept telling me and the fact that she abused her kids

[k582]

I agree Tay

[Tay9662]

You would think that would be a "unstable environment " you know since they say that about guys who domt stay with one girl, but some women who have like 5/6 kids all from different dads its like your kids see that your having sex with all these different men its so not. A good thing for kids to be around

[lasro]

All too tru!!!

[k582]

Sorry to hear. My hubbys ex is very similar to her. Every year she starts some type of drama for the past 10yrs. She has 4 kids by 4 diff fathers and never has a steady place to live or job. It's like she pops out kids for cs. I decided over a year ago to stop letting her get under my skin which at times can be very difficult but in reality she only drives us insane because she herself is miserable. My hubbys daughter is 15 and he doesn't pay court order child support but she gets everything and anything she wants and needs but that's never enough. She's raising her to be so superficial and stays downing my hubby telling her daughter he's not there for her enough and that he loves my kids more. She's turned her daughter against me several times which really hurts. Her daughter stayed w us for a yr and a half n never respected us cuz her mom would tell her she didn't need to and my hubby can't stand it if his daughter doesn't like him so he lets her do or gey whatever she wants. I've gotten to the point where I minused myself from the equation. I kow exactly how u feel. Now that you're pregnant just distance yourself from the drama it's not worth it. It's hard but you don't need the stress. Know that you're def not alone. Unfortunately there are alot of baby mommas who use their kids as pawns to get back at their exes. It's sad really cuz the person they hurt the most is their own child or children.

[kimela84]

I am so sorry you have to deal with that bs!!! Sounds like you are the better person in this situation. And you and your husband put yourselves last like good parents. Has your hubby ever thought of filing papers to her in regards to custody and visitation? Those kids of hers deserve a better role model,perhaps someone like yourself and hubby. :-) dont let her nasty ways get the best of you.your clearly better than that. It does sound like she uses these children as pawn in a game. Or better yet cash grabs. Im sorry you have this. Congratulations on the new addition and stay positive! People like her always get theres in the end. And you'll get all the great stuff u deserve!

[vixemm]

I have the same! My husband works all hours & pays so much in cs as well as the kids staying with us & us clothing & feeding taking them places! We r always broke & she's always out drinking & smoking with a new bf & kid every year!! Really pisses me off!!!! I'm sure there r plenty of other people in our situation 2 just try not to let low life like them get u down  tbh she's prob jealous  , don't let her ruin this exciting time 4 u both xx

[XxKitaraxX]

But definitely no contact order is a great idea

[XxKitaraxX]

Too much drama

[Treksy]

No contact order.  On her. To you. If it involves the kids she can talk to your husband. I have 1 child from a previous relationship and his gf gets mad at him if he gives me money. Its so infuriating. I feel ya
Exs are the devil. -_-

Hey message me and we can have a b*tch fest lol