I'm only 4wewks an I'm scared to have sex.. It sounds silly but its so early a my first one I want no mistakes...
I'm in the neighboring boat. Before, when I was smaller (I'm 26 wks now.), I was worried about hurting my baby when he wanted to have sex... and my drive lowered probably as a result of that. However, lately when I express interest, He seems hesitant. I asked him why and he said he's worried about hurting the baby now that she and my belly are getting bigger. We still have sex, but one time he commented about trying not to have any until the baby is born. I laughed with him at the time, but I'm not sure whether or not I should take that comment seriously.
Yes that's how I was, I was the one that didn't feel like having sex. But its not only the sex, I feel that he doesn't like to be near me (no cuddleing, kissing, hugging) .
And I was just wondering because with my other pregnancy he didn't act like this
I feel like that and im just 24 weeks! But its me that doesn't want it