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My fiance and I got into a fight today and he kept it going all night. Now he is calling me very rude names (****,*****,****) in front of our daughter. I am 33 weeks pregnant and already having contractions, For the past 2 months now. I am stressed out more than I can possibly think and to add on top of it he told me that he is talking top someone else. How do I react to this? Bc all I can seem to do is cry.  
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7140159 tn?1396530233
Hes talking to someone else?! WTF?! Well then he can talk himself right on out thw door. You def dont deserve that crap. And now your in labor so this drama is the last thing you need. Just focus on the great thjng thats happening right now and dont let him or any of that stuff dampen the mood of having your new beautiful baby. Congrats sweetie!!
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6840085 tn?1395664392
oh good luck honey keep us posted
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6396087 tn?1399167632
Do not stress yourself hun. I'm 32 weeks and my partner and I had an argument the other day and he said some mean things too but I ignored it because I refuse to stress my baby. I let him argue by himself. You have to ignore it just until you have your baby..You have seven weeks left.trauma can cause preterm labor.
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7607165 tn?1395780125
Omg gd luck
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:( oh no, prayers are sent your way!
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Well I'm in the hospital having the baby now.. my water broke art 1130pm
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7607165 tn?1395780125
Celebrate ur almost done with pregnancy at least ur not in ur first trimester I say dont allow him to think its ok to say that be strong!!
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7607165 tn?1395780125
U kno what let him!!! Dont stress let him talk ignore him..infact laugh its hard but I would just say watch when I hv baby!!dont stress him men act more tuff when we cry!if he says. He has some one else tell him to go the door is there!I kno it hurts but if he is doing this to u at ur most vulnerable stage in pregnancy he is not a gd person !!! Plz dont stress hv a plan god dont like ugly so pray on it!!! Relationships are not easy but u dont deserve that if my man told me that I would punch him then throw him out ...just sayin ..gd luck focus on kids dont give him the attention to fight
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If he's been talking to somebody else id react by never calling him my fiance again and telling him to get the eff outta my house!!
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8281714 tn?1400608454
Plz don't stress you don't deserve that think about your beautiful healthy baby you want.
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Awww hun you dont deserve that. You need to do what is best for you and your kids. Good luck
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