sick and tired! Rant/Vent

[4_3MommytoBe]

So I usually avoid posting things like this, but I've been upset and crying about it a lot lately. My bf is a truck driver and before my pregnancy he would usually be on the road Mon-Fri. Once I got pregnant he promised he'd change things around and be home more often. He even had me change my work schedule assuming he'd be home on certain days. Well he's now home less than he was before.. I literally only see this man for about 36 hrs then he's gone again. This is my first pregnancy and I'm going to appointments,  having sleepless/painful nights, and dealing with everything alone. And it hurts.

And what hurts most is that when I tried talking to him about it he said "you're nagging and being emotional because you're pregnant" that definitely made me feel worse. I just feel so alone and line he's not apart of this pregnancy.

[4_3MommytoBe]

@diddy_2_23_15 my bf has said that's his reason too but him lying about being home more now doesn't make me trust anything he's saying! Thanks and I'll do my best to be strong and you too :)

[diddy_2_23_15]

Same here I know exactly how you feel husband he's truck driver he's barely home He never been to any of my dr  appointment usually he used to be home more  often but now he trying to stay on the road since I'm having the baby in winter so he can stay home n help but it's hard to alone  but try stay strong!!

[chunkymonkey27]

My boyfriend is a international chef he's in london for a month then he comes back for two weeks i have not seen him in two weeks i told him that i could be pregnant and he seemed excited his first child my second. But i dont think im grtting the support i nee from him he said he wants to do things right but as of right now he's starting off wrong i can possibly be 4w 4d in and if he gonna start disappearing acts then his a**gotta go

[4_3MommytoBe]

Thx for your responses ladies! I try to be happy during the time we have together, but knowing how little time we have together is always in the back of my mind. And I'm constantly worried that once the baby comes it'll put more strain on us.

[erika0013]

Same here my boyfriend and I don't live together an before my pregnacy he would call me evry day an visit me an know that I'm pregnant he don't even talk or mesagage or visit me like before I don't know wats wrong with him ... I'm a ftm to.. it just makes me hate him evry day more n more......

[lilmonstermommy]

Being pregnant and aline is awful. Mt husband is an or truck driver and he's been gone since Sept and not coming home until november. Be happy with the time you do have with him and try to make the best of it. I know we all hit that point when we get overly emotional because we are exhausted and everything hurts....I'm 31 weeks tomorrow and it's been a miserable pregnancy and hard not having him here at all. Try to keep yourself occupied and not think about the time apart. Think about the time together and make it happy. Hang in there.

[2ndbabyonboard]

Same here! My s/o is also a trucker driver and i havent seen him in two weeks! He's never been to an appointment but he better not miss the delivery of our daugther!