I am 11 wks 3 days. I was SO excited to hear that my sister tested positive, too :) she is most likely 5 weeks. She will be going to the doctor relatively early because her last pregnancy ended sadly in a miscarriage before she even got to get first, 8wk appt. She will not get excited and the poor thing is so scared that the same thing will happen to her. I had fears about my own pregnancy and did a lot of research. I explained that she is no mor at risk of another miscarriage than I was, or why other woman who never had a miscarriage. I also told her That first trimester miscarriage are do to chromosomal issues and not her fault. I feel guilty about sending her my sonogram pictures or talking about my little one because she's so nervous about hers. I want to share my excitement about my baby and the excitement of hers. I guess I just have to wait until she hears the heartbeat. With her miscarriage, as i said She didn't make it to the first appt to see or hear baby. Unfortunately the pregnancy ended Before That. I keep encouraging her but she says very little about it. Am i selfish? What can i do to help her?