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confused
Well the other day I felt sick and I told my fiancee (we recently broke up ) I thought I was pregnant he said he was signing all rights over and I went to the doctor and yep im pg got all the proof had the papers done tonight for him to sign it over he walks in reads it throws it down and says im not signing it does this mean he wants the baby
I personally don't think you should ever force a man to be the father if he doesn't want to be because that's hard for the child to know daddy pays for me but doesn't want me or have anything to do with me. But maybe he's had a change of heart give it time to set in... Men take longer for anything to hit em... And then go from there.
Im sorry but if he wants to give uprights then its is lost that is the way I see it
Don't just let him walk away from his responsibility.
You can get the papers done stating he is giving up all parental rights and if he is volunteering to sign them you can do them before the baby is born
Thanks yall
Either way it's about what u want. He wants go coward up and not be there u got this. Take care of u and baby.
Give him space. Take a month to take care of yourself. In that time think about what will happen if he stays or goes. Think if you need custody papers. Then at that month ask him, let him know that you need an answer now or you will make sure to have full custody. Regardless what happened to you two, he needs to decide. But now he os filed with emotions amd men tend to shut down
What papers? This just happened to me a day after we broke up and he is not happy about this baby
Sounds like he wants to be the babies father. I would just try asking him if you could talk about it because you feel so confused. It doesn't have to be a fight. Ask him if he supports you in this pregnancy.
I did he just said he wasn't signing it and didn't wanna fight
You should ask him what he means by that
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