some of you ladies are becoming mothers..

[Pattyann215]

I usually don't post stuff like this or even bother with negative replies or comments from others but seeing some of you ladies who are becoming mothers and some of you already are downgrade or belittle other women for the advice they seek from you is just ridiculously sad. Calling this girl a retard or telling her to get a life for the questions she's asking just baffles me. If it bothers you that much then don't read it. How hard is it to skip these questions. Now if I were to say how immature it is of some of you to call ppl names and that you shouldn't have kids that would be totally wrong for me to do. This girl might have serious issues and is looking for attention and is not getting it elsewhere so she came here maybe hoping to find a friend who knows. Now I would hope none of you would actually call a mentally challenged or handicapped person a "retard". Sorry for this long post enjoy your day everyone. And have a happy and healthy pregnancy!!

[Pattyann215]

Yessss^^^^ that's exactly what I was trying to say. Thank you ladies

[knufrio]

I totally agree with your post. I think some people really don't realize that there are really people affected by these obsessions. We are very quick to call someone a troll and ignore their inquiry or laugh at them for being "stupid" but to these people they are true fears. I have dealt with this personally because a family member of mine has diagnosed hypochondria. I cannot even begin to tell you how many hours she spends worrying about things that are completely irrational to most but truly frighten her and rule over her life.

[Angelina19900]

Amen

[KNMomof6]

Best post of the the day!

[Pattyann215]

You*

[Pattyann215]

@jojobeaner I totally agree with. Its clear she has a mental illness and with those questions she was absolutely sincere about them which would clearly say there really is something wrong. But come on don't call her names for it. She's not hurting anyone your right!!!

[Pattyann215]

Awe thank you @inkedkelly as well as you are hun

[jojobeaner]

It's pretty sad. Her behavior really is in line with having a mental illness, and she already mentions obsessive compulsive disorder, so unless she is a "troll", she clearly needs assistance. Not women calling her ignorant names.

Yes, it's annoying and bizarre to some to read her posts, but she was never rude and just kept repeating herself and her main points. Of course we all know you cannot get pregnant by touching a door knob, but we should have empathy for a woman who legitimately has a fear of that occurring.

Calling for a ban on her profile simply because they can't understand her mental state is very uncalled for. Out of all the rude and ignorant posters in this forum, who attack other women and belittle them to no end, THIS is the woman you want to ban from the app? Come on. She isn't harming anyone. She just needs help.

[inkedkelly]

You are going to be an amazing mother. You are beautiful and completely agree with you mama

[Pattyann215]

Thank ladies. I'm not trying start any arguments on here I know everyone is entitled to their own opinion but when you start calling ppl names especially retard that's when I have to say something and I don't like to be the one but its just crazy how mothers to be or especially women who are already mothers belittle other women.

[chisaac]

Just wanted you to know that I'm on your side with this one!

[Newmummy657]

Great post!!! Good on you, I agree majority of the time the replays are good however some of the responses I read are well... You said it!