dont understand

[von90]

I keep my baby father updated on how my pregnancy going and things like that.I told him that we got 4weeks and 6days to go and all he said was good for you.How rude!!!!!!!!!now I'm feeling like he doesn't care about our baby. I'm not sad at all I just know what I have to do when our baby is born.

[phxmommy]

I'm glad and sad that I'm not the only one going through this, glad bc I feel less alone and sad bc more children are fatherless. Good luck mommies :-)

[squeakyco20032003]

If u an on getting child support.it will be easier to tell him when u go into labor so he can sign the birth certificate. If not u he csn use that against u... I considered ur idea but then i looked up Nys law for child support

[von90]

True

[BLESSEDwith5tobe]

My daughter's father did not sign the birth certificate.. he came to the hospital the day after she was born but he chose not to sign.... I had no problem getting child support! As long as he keep a job

[mw89]

Honestly do you want him to come around if he's being this way now what makes you think he will be a good father

[markysmess]

I would say tell him when you do go into labor at least. Give him a chance to sign the birth certificate. Then it will be easier to get the child support. He wont be able to deny it then. Good luck to you ladies

[BLESSEDwith5tobe]

And thats really all you can do maybe him having to pay child support will make him come around and see what he is missing out on but if not oh well you will find someone who deserve to have u and your child

[von90]

Thanks and good luck to u all... I'm just gonna file for child support and call it a year I dont got time to wait around and see if he's gonna act right...

[BLESSEDwith5tobe]

Yup been there before!! My daughter is 8 ( on the 26) and her sperm doner as I call him hasn't been there at all he probably seen her about 10 times and tha was only in the first year! Hasn't seen her since her 1st b day! Dont force him he obviously doesn't care! You will find someone who deserve to love ypur baby and that will I did so good luck to you ladies!!

[TaninsMommy]

Oh and I'm due any day now. Its been since June and he still hasn't come around.

[TaninsMommy]

I haven't talked to the father of my child since I was 2 1/2 months along. If he wants to know anything about his son then he can contact me. I'm not telling him when I go into labor but I will text him a picture of his child and how much he weightet, his name, ect.... in the end it will be his loss if he doesn't step up to the plate.

[von90]

Me either I did want him to be there when I give birth but since he act like he doesn't care I'm not gonna make him. Smh sad case

[mel110011]

Same with my baby daddy he said at the beginning he wanted to be apart everything but really he didnt care. Im not even gonna bother telling him when i go into labour. Its his loss.

[von90]

Thats what I was plan on doing. I felt he was really being rude and disrespectful.

[koyama83]

Forget telling him anything anymore. He'll get curious eventually.