stressing ,not eating ,& losing weight (venting)

[sydneeeeeyyyy]

Me & him are on & off ,right now we are off ,but i had tge shower today & him being single ,i just felt like just the baby mom ,everything felt faked b/c his friends & some family knows wha goes on between us b/c i believe he tells him ,but anyways you can tell they looking to see if he gon put his arm around me or if he'll take the picture w/ me ,he cares but i feel like the way he talks to him has them doing that & late last night i found out he ****** other girls while we weren't together & its been three months almost four since we've been together ,im not happy & dont no one tell me not to stress b/c its easier said than done ,i lost weight from my last doctors visit ,3 pounds but i was gaining & gaining befors i started stressing & now in losing b/c when i stress i cant eat ,i be trying but i cant if im not ohkay or happy ,its just bad im 36weeks & 2 days ,i wish i didnt care for him i really do

[sydneeeeeyyyy]

& i came to find out he choose coming to the shower over goingvti handle a serious situation w/ his dad

[sydneeeeeyyyy]

Thank you

[peaches0329]

No problem. I know that there's a pot of gold at the end of every rainbow. U just stay sweet. N congrats on ur lil one.

[sydneeeeeyyyy]

You're right ,& thank you

[peaches0329]

*sorry so many typos w auto correct.  I meant to say I PRAY ALL IS WELL W U AND UR BABY!!

[peaches0329]

   O ur the one that posted he went to the jail to take his father some stuff for his release???
   Being in ur situation for the last 13 years of my life w my on & off legal husband cheating, lying, taking never giving (o yea he gave me 3 kids) I'm happy to have and I'm prego w my 4th when I found that he was stepping out he left. No point in u jeep going out n this emotional roller-coaster.  Free urself now for years of let down. If it's this bad now it's not getting better. Ur main focus is that baby that going to love u unconditionally!!! Noone should have had to make him do anything.  If it's not genuine don't accept it ur not a charity.  Stay strong for u, ur baby. It's not going to b overnight love die. But eventually over time u'll c that ur better without him....it's pray all is well w u not ur baby. U can do this

[sydneeeeeyyyy]

We been messing around for 4+ years so we have history ,so finding out he was f-ing girls while we still sorta talked & f-ed made me upset but then sitting at the shower seeing he is putting in no effort & his friends trynna encourage him to smile in pictures or put his arm around me ,they tried to tell him to kiss me in pictures & stuff ,it just felt like he faked it to please family & friends ,& he aint wanna bd bothered w/ me at the moment ,he even made up a lie saying he wasnt gonna come to the shower b/c of a serious situation ,i just dont wanba hurt ,cry or stress anymore ,& i want her to come out so i can have a real smile on my face & not faking it so no one knows how i really feel

[Cutelilmizz]

So sorry mama stay strong things will get better..I'm the same way when I'm sad or upset I can't eat but try your best think of what's best for u and baby right now

[yer_mom]

I misunderstood what you said. You said he was being with other girls while you guys weren't together? And your always going to care for him, you have a history and a baby on the way with that man. It's normal and your going to feel that way for awhile. But, sometimes it's best to not be with someone if the relationship is toxic. The baby doesn't need to be in a tense environment and neither do you. As far as stress and weight loss goes, just make sure you are staying hydrated and taking your prenatals so that you and the baby get the nutrients you need. Eventually your appetite will pick up. I know it's hard to do much of anything while being upset.