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my boyfriend thinks I'm not attracted to him

Okay so lately I just haven't been in the mood for sex, I don't think about it or want it but it seems like since I've been pregnant he's wanting it more. I turn him down so much I'm starting to sound like a prued. I don't know how to explain to him it's not him it's just my hormones and the pregnancy making me feel this way. Any of you ladies having the same issue or is it just me?  :(
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My boyfriend is the same way he always makes me feel terrible and always assumes im doing someone else or that im a lesbian. He also says hes going to find it some where else.... good to know im not the only one and im 33 weeks and 3 days :(
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I haven't had sex in 5 weeks. And can't see me wanting it in the near future
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I'm so glad I'm not alone in this. He is trying to be understanding but it still really hurts his feelings but he's a persistent thing and never stops trying.
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7409776 tn?1408929189
Opposite with me! I want it more, and he only wants it once a week, twice if I'm lucky! I know I shouldn't take it personally but I do.
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8266573 tn?1403137275
Yup me I've been feeling like that since I can remember I'm 32 weeks right and I still don't want to my husband says the same thing and he thinks that I don't love him anymore.  my previous pregnancy I've always wanted sex but not with this one. I try to explain to him over and over to him that it's not that I don't love him but it's my hormones.. I feel bad for him lol I do have sex with him once in a while but for him not for me :/
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Im in the same boat as you but unfortunately my ex wasnt so understanding but i havent been in the mood for weeks even months it seems like but the best advice is to know hes wanted and its not him its just your not really in the mood
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7818018 tn?1406154441
Yep its the hormones. Even though I'm on my 4th pregnancy I still get asked this question. Although he is more understanding now but I still get asked this all the time!!
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