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Me n my bff are both expecting n are weeks apart. I wanna tell other people but I don't want to hear the negative comments. I'll be 26 nxt month n this is my 1st child! Why r pple so negative?  My mom n gma r excited but I'm scared out my mind because I have MS n I just worry about me n my baby! My gma cancer is back n I just pray for my family health!
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Thx ladies! I'm happy I found this app I needed to hear from other women who understand! I, my gma, ma n fiance are happy so I'm tryin to b content! I never thought could have kids! Now I kno God made it happen on his time! Once again thx for the kind words! How early did u tell ur job ur were prego? I do a lot of bendin and lifting....
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Thx ladies! I'm happy I found this app I needed to hear from other women who understand! I, my gma, ma n fiance are happy so I'm tryin to b content! I never thought could have kids! Now I kno God made it happen on his time! Once again thx for the kind words! How early did u tell ur job ur were prego? I do a lot of bendin and lifting....
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No matter what age, race, religion, first child or tenth, whether you work or not, are financially stable or not.... someone will always have a negative comment. My first I had all the negative and even now pregnant with my second I get more of them. I've never used any sort of assitance not even WIC! Anf I get people saying "you know what causes that right?"....

Just be prepared and have a smart *** remark for those who are negative. A friend told me when people ask that just tell them you don't have tv and get bored easy. They'll be stunned
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Congrats on your pregnancy! Don't let anyone take away from this special time in your life. We expected some negativity too so we sent out pregnancy announcements. That way people could keep their comments to themselves. For us it was my parents we knew we were going to hear it from. Our friends and rest of our families were happy for us. I have had multiple back surgeries so I knew it wasn't going to be easy for me. I can imagine it won't be easy with MS either. It doesn't matter what everyone else thinks. Wishing you the best!
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