thinking of leaving

[exbaby1]

I am 19 weeks pregnant and i think i might leave my partner but in afraid that im being irrational because of my hormones or that il regret it.
I love him alot but.i dont feel he contributes anything to my wellbeing or shows me enough respect. Hes been goin out mostly every weekend and stayin out all nyt. hes been rude and disrespectfull a few times aswell and left me upset. He doesnt take me out or make me feel like his priority. I know he loves me but is that enough to stay? Am i bein irrational?

[candrea_2214]

Good luck!

[Sergia]

On the same boat.  Mine went so far as to let his friend be rude to me a few time. I'm scare to leave cuz I don’t have a job and my daughter is very attached to him. Always had the illusion of a complete family but I'm just tired of it all , and I think going to a shelter would be best for me but im afraid to put her thru that and giving that I'll be due in 2 months I don’t want my baby to be born while I'm in a shelter.  But I'm so tired of being unhappy and no matter how much I talk to him about it it never changes.  It just seem to be getting worst.

[exbaby1]

I think ill have a talk with him so he knows im serious an not just nagging...I feel like the easy option would be to walk away now before we move into our new home but i will see how we get on. thanks girls xxx

[tamara2604]

I think that if you think you might be being silly chances are you are. Talk to him try and work it out unless he is seriously mistreating you I think its worth working out. Good luck

[aubsivy]

I had my first when I was 21 and in a bad relationship. Bad wise meaning he treated me horrible, rather drink then be home and was just mean to me and put me down. After I had my daughter I decided for her sake that it would be better if I raised her alone then see me unhappy and unhealthy. Now here's the kicker! It made me very strong inside and determined, which is great but now it's baby number 2 with a man I plan on spending myllife with and I always feel inside when we disagree that I could just walk away and do this on my own again because doing it alone was great. What I'm getting at is its hard to raise a baby, it's even harder to do it alone! But if you are in a relationship that no longer serves you? Walk away!

[candrea_2214]

I don't think you're being irrational. However, make sure you communicate your feelings and give him a chance to improve.  After that I would say follow your gut