too early for ********!

[BandM07]

The past couple days have been a rollar coaster with my bd yesterday he got drunk and caused a scene at my house mind you he works graveyard
And so he never went to sleep, so i was pissed at him all day last night tried to forgive him we Had a great night and this morning i go through his phone and he has pictures of girls butts, this is the second time he has done this, im angry cause he accuses me of doing foul things. I dont feel he is having sex with ppl but im not sure if he is on websites or social sites... but he said said they are from porn sites mmmm i dont know what to think or do! Honestly he likes porn but idk
Have any of you gone through this?

[jennnnny8675309]

Oh , and I put that ex that was pursuing him in check. :-)

[lisarye]

Well yesterday I just found out mine was cheating on me, talking to girls on the kik messaging app. I'm 32 weeks and I don't feel he was having sex either but now I put nothing past him. I can imagine how you feel I'm still very hurt but I had to drop him for a while. Now he's feeling the huge guilt trip. Talk to him,usually the accuser is the suspect.

[jennnnny8675309]

My husband had work buddies who would send him dirty pics and it really used to **** me off so I asked him how he would feel if I had other guys junk on my phone? He made sure that stopped after that. My mother in law once had the nerve to tell mall men look at porn. Which I don't believe is true, I was raised in a church where men have integrity.  I think when a man points his finger, it is really his consciousness coming out.  Like saying  "you're cheating" they really are, not always but a good deal of the time. My point is sit down get down to what is really going on and have an honest conversation.  My husband had a relentless ex worked graveyard and was generally unhappy. Once I say down and talked to him things changed. That was the beginning of our marriage, we have been together for 10 years and things are great, we are best friends and only have eyes for each other. Talking really helps, or at the gives you perspective into how willing he is to make things work. Good luck!