ughhh

[Theanna1989]

I love my baby that I'm growing inside I'm 28 weeks pregnant but I've just gotten so out of shape and fat with this pregnancy. Ughhh its unbelievable I feel so uncomfortable and fat nothing fits. I used to wear pretty clothes now when I shop I go to the big girl section :-( and to make my self esteem any lower I was on my husband's phone and I had a curiosity to check his history.  What do I find him searching for random pictures of random hot girls in short dresses skirts and stuff like that. Mean while I'm over here just FAT!!!:-( I know I'm growing a child inside of me and that's what is making me big now but it does hurt. Because I used to be a regular size girl that would wear anything and it would look fine. Now nope :/
I'm just so done being pregnant I want to be my pre pregnancy weight and I want my pregnancy body back too

[Theanna1989]

Yeah I did get a lot of maternity clothes from motherhood  but I still don't feel attractive to him. But I'm feeling much more better now. I'm trying to take this time and distract myself with planning my baby shower. So I'm trying not to worry about what his searching for in the Internet as long as he doesn't search in person for that one hot chick

[River_Melody]

Ment to say do you find your man unattractive lol.

[River_Melody]

Try buying maternity clothes instead of plus sizes. The sizes are different and they come in super cute styles. It's all about fitting your new body shape, And the sizes don't change much just the cut of the clothes. Men look at what they find attractive, it doesn't men they don't find you attractive it's just in their nature. My husband liked a pic on Facebook of a young skinny girl posing in her underwear and it showed up on my wall. It made me feel ugly and huge. So I sent him a text saying "his very pregnant, and huge wife, loved seeing half naked women posing in their underwear showing up on my walk because their husband liked the picture. Said no woman EVER." I got a text back saying "sorry, my bad." And he has yet to do it again. We laughed about it when he got home. Just understand it's not anything against you. He's just a man. Think of it like this, do you ever look at other guys, or pictures of half naked men? If you do, does it mean you don't find your man unattractive? :-)

[Theanna1989]

Yeah i plan on getting on my insanity routine I had before i got pregnant. But i was on it for just a month so i didn't get through the whole program.  I don't want to let my self go I'm 25 and I don't have much long till my 30's hit. I'm gonna get my body back in track.  But what does hurt me is why he  have to go and search for pretty women thank god it's only in pictures but who knows what he does in the street alone.  I did confront him he just said "oh why you going through my phone I never go through your phone"  freaking asssd hoeee I just want to slap him across his face while his sleeping right now for being such an asssss >:/

[cbearsmummy]

Aww that's awful! There should be nothing more beautiful/ attractive than you growing your child in your belly :( my partner thinks it's incredible & can't keep his hands off me. Maybe because you feel so down about yourself he is sensing it all. Be proud of your bump & embrace your new shape it won't last forever & you'll miss it when it's gone. Talk to him & tell him how he's making you feel

[GxoK]

I know how u feel....I really, really do. I also know how frustrating it is. What I tell myself is that he's with me. The women r pictures but I am real. If u want, u could always try talking to him about it....let him know how much it hurts ur feelings.... just remember, try not to freak out during the convo or get excessively emotional. Guys shut down when we do that and then they don't listen or take us seriously.

[Geniej24]

There will be no more beautiful woman than the mother of his child just remember that. Your body is beautiful especially now more than ever. I will be in the same boat soon and at only 12 weeks I'm already getting sad about my weight but I rather gain weight if it means I'll have a healthy baby. Just workout later it's easy working out while the baby is still little just put him or her in a swing or bouncer and workout at home.  Don't beat yourself up your body is beautiful.