OMG me toooooo! 39 weeks 5 days...not dilated or effaced. I'm losing hope!
I don't know about the other ladies but I felt my cervix dilating. I knew there had been change before my doctors did. To me it felt like when your man goes a little deep and hurts you back there. If you do feel it you should only feel it when you have contractions or its another pain altogether.
It's just pelvic pains. I've had tons of pains dull and sharp and I'm 39+5 and still not dilated
Sorry you can't feel yourself dilate
I don't think u can tell if ur dialating unless doctor checks u