venting but i need some advice!

[crazybeautifulgal1621]

I am 26 weeks pregnant and with this pregnacy my hormones for sex is completely high. I want to have sex with my fiance but he tells me to put on something sexy or just looks at me like im not very pretty or anything. And he is watching porn like everyday. How do i break it to him that it makes me feel bad and feel unattractive that he does that. He hardly hugs or kisses me when he comes home from work and he sleeps out on the couch or floor and wish he would sleep in bed with me. I want to cry and wonder why he does that. Does anyone have any advice???

[HonduranPrincess]

Xoxo ;) @ desi1121

[Desi1121]

^best.comment.ever!

[HonduranPrincess]

I went through the same thing. ... I ended up buying a vibrator. Lol seriously!  I tried talking to my hubs but it didn't work..... Thank gosh,  out of nowhere  we began having sex again and then I started turning down his sex offers. ...  This pregnancy has me a mess.
Communicate with your hubs ... offer to watch porn with him. If not , whenever you guys are laying down... pull out his "tthing"and get him going orally!  

Good luck. ... but I seriously understand you

[amy8702]

Have you tried talking to him about it. Men i swear can become as hormonal as we do when it comes to pregnancy and they can be different from one pregnancy to another.

[crazybeautifulgal1621]

Thanks ill try that. I just feel really bad and wonder what is so different this time. When i was pregnant with my son it was so much different so idk what to do

[hh_mama]

He sounds like a jerk. I would be mad too.

[asmith21488]

Next time hes watching porn ask to watch it with him...maybe invest in some sexy underwear...turn up the heat and he wont be able to stay out of the kitchen...be open with him let him know it hurts your feelings and what youre willing to change as long as he changes