wanting to feel sexy and needed!!!!

[babyjose]

Ok ladies,this is not a question i just been feeling down and sad most of my pregnancy because i feel like my husband does not find me attractive anymore. He really doesnt wanna touch me in a way to be intimate and he just acts different towards me. Its almost like i ashame him in some way. I just wish he would make still feel like he finds me attractive and sexy.:(

[lexus3232]

Oh sorry I feel the same way ...it stinks I dont feel sexy I use to be.. but now that I feel better I get hair highlights and walk alot and buy cute tops that stretch do I can still use after baby.. I try but talk to him.. gd luck

[mege26]

:( have you told him how you feel?

[babyjose]

Thanks! But its even hard for him to tell me i look cute. I just hate feeling like this because it was like before i got pregnant he couldnt keep his hands off and now i guess i just look disgusting to him.:(

[mege26]

Maybe he is just looking at you as a "mother" instead of a wife. Some times men see us different when we are pregnant and it has nothing to do with not being attractive. Idk bout you but I have been tired and no energy so I kinda just look however. But the last 2 times I did my hair and make up and dressed up he couldn't stop telling me how cute I was! (I've never had him say I was sexy... Only cute :() buy yourself something that you feel good in!