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Confused and in Love!

So I've been with this guy since June. We met through my cousin and instantly fell for each other. In the beginning everything was great with us and now I recently found out I was pregnant by him and he's acting so different.  He told me he's not ready and he wants us to work on us first(we never made it official) then have a baby. I told him I want to keep it and he's been so different and unhappy. Telling me to get rid of it. I love him and it doesn't help that he's not happy about it. We both already have one kid from prior situations but my son is 6 his daughter is 4. I want him to stay around but I'm also like **** him but it could be my hormones. I don't know what to do! What should I do? I'm 6 weeks
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Jade said it all for me u rock all by yourself moms are the ones who give birth for a reason we always arwbthe Ines invested and if you ever need someone to talk to us ladies are here u can even message me if your feeling alone I have a few friends I met here and sometimes we just talk about things guys don't get. You will be an amazing single mommy if you have to.
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Goodluck momma your baby will be fine and very lucky to have such a caring mommy!
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You know what you ladies are all right. If he doesn't want in he needs to go! I just didn't want to go into single motherhood again but we're built for anything. Thanks so much!
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Also you've been together 3 months. So he won't always be there but your baby will.
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Don't. When I was 18 I was super in love with a guy. I got pregnant and he pulled the same.crap. he said he wasn't.ready and wanted to concentrate on us. I actually believed him. So I decided to get a abortion. a worst thing I've ever done. I can't bring my baby back and it.breaks my heart everyday.  But I was young and dumb. I always think about how I have a 4 yr old and 17'month old and I would have a 8yr old also. It's poopy. The worst part is he was cheating on me the.whole.time with a.close friend. So this is your choice you dont need him to be there. Leave him have your bean. There will be assistance you can get if you need it. He suggested you get rid of it I suggest you get rid.of.him...
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Talk to him, you already made it clear you want to have this baby ask if he wants in or out, if he says in great but if he's out get his info and take his *** to court for child support..God bless
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Work on you and him. You still have 8 months before the baby comes.
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