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what's wrong with me??

I hate being on my own if my guy goes out I wana kill him as if he dare leave me by myself. I feel horrible but I can't help it. I feel miserable anxious depressed paranoid and there really is no reason for all of this I can't shake it off
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Maybe talk to your Dr about it. Pregnancy hormones can wreak havoc on your mental wellbeing.
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I feel the same way. He doesn't go out to hang with his buddies or anything (they're nice enough to come to us). He goes to work then he goes to school at night, trying to finish his degree. We have a 2 year old and he's gone all day. It makes me miserable.
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Before I got pregnant I encouraged my husband to go out and do things on his own. I became extra anxious and insecure during my pregnancy, especially when I started showing. I would constantly feel like my husband was going to stop loving me. We got in some arguments over it when things got tense, but communication helped a lot. It's hard to put in perspective sometimes when you're anxious that things are not only changing and difficult for us women, but our partners as well. Keeping an open line of communication can help you both get the things you need. Let him know how you feel and that you might need a little extra love and attention. Sometimes I feel like the ups and downs of pregnancy and how you deal with them are preparing us for the challenges of being parents. It's a new stage of life, no matter how many children you've had.
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I hate being alone. Never liked it even as a kid. I get anxious too, I work with my bf and with him 24/7 for the past couple yrs and soon I will be staying home for at least a yr.
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Go with him!! Ask him to understand that due to pregnancy you need him, you have to be with him, my husband is away workind and i only see him once or twice a month so i spend every minute i can with him when we are together =)
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I cling to my hubby too. It's just that we feel that we need them there with us. My husband understands and doesn't really go anywhere without me.
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23 weeks +4 ftm
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