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Not a question just feel like venting?!

Okkk ladies I'm 31+1 first baby I'm very excited but also very nervous(more about the labor) I feel a lil unappreciated by my family even my husband sumtimes I feel no one understands what I go through on a daily basis!! I go to work 7:30-1 5 days a week even skewl from 3-9:30 pm sum times I feel like giving up but I don't I keep pushing for my lil one mind yuhh I'm 20 but just felt like talking any advice would be helpful thanks
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Sounds like my current situation as well.  20 yrs old. I Work in the a.m then classes all day long. We had a 2week break from school though so i also took time off work. And girl am I loving it! So yes I HIGHLY recommend you get yourself some YOU time ASAP!
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Thxs girls for the advice I know I won't be the first or the last to go&&feel this but just knowing have ppl understand me helps a lot good luck with all yurr pregnancies ladies
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But I do hope things get better for you. I'm praying for that day with me.
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I'm 31w3d and I completely understand what you mean. Unappreciated by my boyfriend and people at work. I'm the one carrying the baby, sacrificing and making sure he's safe and healthy. All the while working full-time taking care of people with mental disabilities and having to come home to and unappreciative boyfriend. I'm soo far from complaining though because I love my little prince already and I'm very greatful for this opportunity ..I just want everyone else to understand what I'm going throug and see things from my point of view.
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Hang in there you can do it. When I was pregnant with my first baby I was 18 going to high school & working for HSA  I walked about 10 blocks from school to work 5 days a week then had to go home to an empty home because my husband worked construction & wouldn't get home tell 9 or 10 pm so I felt lonely.  plus I did all the cooking & cleaning. I can tell your a strong young women it gets better God bless you & your baby.  
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You should be on bed rest knowing your babys almost here. You shouldnt be working for one and you should be relaxing, fustration leads to early birth which isnt good and can put you and your baby in distress. Get on rest girl.
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And*    this phone is dumb. Lol
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Take a break from your busy schedule just for you time. You could also talk to your husband and ask him on a date or something. Sometimes I just have to say how I feel and that helps. Good luck, abd hang in there.
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