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will this be your last pregnancy ??

Have you guys thought about it ?? My husband and I have . We decided he was going to be the one to get a vasectomy . This is our 4th child  ....
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10084709 tn?1407712389
Yes. My husband is getting fixed too lol. This is our first, a son. Im 32 & really don't think my body can handle another pregnancy. I had 3 miscarriages before & this pregnancy has been a rocky road.
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Last for is too.  The plan has always been 2 babies!
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I totally hear you !! My baby was 10 months when i got pregnant while on birth control.  My last delivery was a csection and it was horrible . Im terrified of going through it again.  We decided this was the last one.  Since 4 is more than enough . Good luck i hope your pregnancy is not so rocky !
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I'm pregnant with my third! We were done after our second and had the mirena put in. Well, I ended up pregnant anyways and the mirena is missing so I'm definately getting tubes tied during surgery!!!
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Second and last one for us after preeclamplsia twice. We're still undecided about who should get done :-/
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We do not plan to have anymore but I will not get my tubes tied because lots of women thought it was the best decision and years later decided to have more children. I have enough for now but I refuse to wait 5-10 year and decide I want more children only not to be able to. For some women it is what they really want and the best decision but it is not for me.
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I thought about it today and with my age (33) I don't think I'll have anymore. God put this little one in my belly for a reason but idk idk he would do it again
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Yes I toad my husband she is the last.We have one together plus the lil girl we will be having in May.He has two other b4 we got married so that is our 4 kids.I toad him that she is the last one. he agreed...
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9390824 tn?1403498885
Yup.  Our second and last. Have a girl now having a boy.  We are both very younf but decided 2 was more than enough.  So my husband is getting fixed
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This will be my last. I have a daughter and we have a son and whatever this baby is.  .  I'm 28 and don't want to be raising kids till I'm 50..lol. plus we would have to buy a bigger house and suv if we have anymore.
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1821865 tn?1317522031
This is my second boy Finito done
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This is our 4th and was not supposed to happen.I would take more but my husband doesn't want anymore so we will see.
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I just lost our first a week weeks ago and we plan on having 2 little ones in addition to our angel <3 after that I will get my tunes tied. I'm young but I've had it planned for years :)
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Definitely not our last we are 25 and have a 2yr old boy and expecting a baby girl in December we can definitely afford 2 more. So after this baby girl I'm definitely not using birth control and just put it in the hands of God to see when he decides to bless us again with more babies
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9764007 tn?1405807828
My first is ten I'm on my second babygirl that's due Feb 1st.. I will try again laaaaaaater lol couple yrs down...
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8680955 tn?1405621293
This is my 4th. I have 3 girls and expecting my baby boy any day now. After him I'm DONE!
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My husband and I had decided previously on 2 only and right now I'm on my 2nd pregnancy. But now I feel I want just one more but maybe in 5 more yrs. The thing is Im 25 and my husband is 30, he doesn't want to be 50 and have a teenager still because he sees how much my mother in law struggles with his 17 yr old sister. But if we have another too soon we might end up needing food stamps and what not and I don't want that. I believe if we bring children into this world is because we know we can afford the costs that come with raising them and yeah sometimes things go south and you  might need help but it should only be temporary while you get your self back up. I get annoyed with those people who have one kid after another and have been on welfare since the first one. Like really if you can't afford to raise one or 2 children then why do you keep having kids. So I don't know we'll see what happens eventually.
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This will be #3 and then DONE! We have two boys and are now expecting a girl, so she will def complete our family. Besides, I do not enjoy being pregnant.  I dont think I could go through this again!
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I am so so so DONE!!! I have a 5 year old girl and I am 20 days away from having my baby boy!!!! So I am really over giving up my body for 10 months....it is Alot of work before and after...and they are expensive!!! But I am in love with them...this all I need!
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Yes, yes, yes this will be my 4th and last one. I'm definitely getting my tubes tied. Children are a blessing and i wanna take care of them well and with my husband 4 is all we can afford. So I'll be squeezing my little Christmas present a little extra tight cause she will be my last. Good luck ladies!
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Im NOT DONE! I am 28 with # 5 due in a week! My husband and I want 9.. I know im CRAZY!
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I'm 26 with #4 due in May, not done yete and my husband want more.
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We're pregnant with #3. We were "done" at 2. Husband had his vasectomy scheduled and a few weeks later we found out i was pregnant.  Whoops! He just had the surgery last weekend.
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We are having our second little girl. I don't want to be done but my SO does :/ he's getting fixed after I have her and it makes me sad but it can be reversed. I've always wanted a lot of kids,he never wanted any till he was like 35. I'm 20 and he's 24.
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