Am I pregnant, is something wrong, or is this normal?

[Castyola]

Hi! I'm Yolanda
Ok so in January I missed my period it didn't come until the second day of february. It was heavy like my normal periods but very short, only lik 3 or 4 days compared to my normal 7-9. Then in march I skipped again. I thought I had it on the 15th, but the blood was very light and only last a day. Then again on April 4th.  I'm not sure if I'm pregnant or not. My boyfriend and I have never had like actual penis-in-my-vagina sex, just oral and fingering, and we're usually very careful. If I touch his penis i never touch myself, and vice versa. His *** has never been out in the open (as far as we know) But I'm still kind of afraid of pregnancy. BUT my period had also been turning a little irregular since about October of 2014, coming later and later, skipping, and usual signs that i'd been accustomed to either disappearing or changing. I've had a really stressful second year of college, and I've gained a lot of weight. BUT I also started messing around with my boyfriend. I'm really afraid to be pregnant, but I'm also afraid that something is wrong. Please help, I don't know who to tell this too!

[cventuro999]

Even doing oral you can get chlamydia and it doesn't always have signs hence the reason Its called the silent infection.

[April7th]

Do you get sex ed in the states?

[tiawanezfudlovr4567]

It sounds more like stress, but it also could be PCOS. either way, it wouldn't hurt to get checked by a doctor. I highly doubt you're pregnant, especially if you have had at least some bleeding every month.

[jessmore]

If I'm reading this correctly you said you have never actually had sexual intercourse so you couldn't be pregnant so cross that of the list as far as std's if you have only had oral I'm pretty sure you would know if that was the case as I would think contracting something orally would definitely leave some sort of sign but I could be wrong get tested just in case. Your cycles could be irregular for a number of reasons so I would recommend a trip to a doctor to find out.

[Castyola]

Phew
And I would have to call to see how much up front would be right? :s
Sorry if I'm asking to much questions its just...I've never really been in a situation likes this. And my parents wouldn't be much help. They're really strict and judgmental.

[rayraks25]

Plan parenthood is a confidential clinic

[Ciara_vee]

If you are 17 or older they can't tell your parents without your approval  just got to a clinic and pay up front

[Castyola]

thanks so much.
Although is there a way I can get check for Chlamydia without my parents knowing? :S

[cventuro999]

I would take a test so you can relax, not to scare you though. You may want to go get checked for chlamydia. Chlamydia sometimes doesn't have symptoms but abnormal bleeding is one of them. Good luck

[Castyola]

Should I take a test just in case?
I'm really scared of what it will say :S

[Castyola]

I hope thats just it, but I'm still scared that I could be pregnant. Do you think tht is possible at all?

[chantanmore]

Your if it's from stress  and the weight  gain  it happens it trow ur body off