Appreciate advice and facts !

[killemwiththesmile]

Hey My names Joanne.. im 18 years old and about to finish my final year in high school and star university next year. Me and my boyfriend just got back together.. and. we had unprotected sex.. but he pulled out way past any sort of ejactulation. That was a month ago.. and we havent had sex since. I got my period after that but it was a day or two after i expeced. now i am feeling really queezy all the time like im at the verge of throwing up, my breast are tender and i fel constipated all the time. my next peroid i due to arrive next week. so i will wait for that. but what are the chances of me being pregnant? I thought id break the cyxle in my family of being a young mother.. so im afraid to tell my mother. We are super close and she always tells me to tell her if i do so we can deal with it together.. but im so afraid to lose her trust and break our bond. also afraid to tell my boyfriend. hes going through alot right now and i dont want to worry him with this aswell.

[coopers]

Hi you will not break your bond with you mum,you see the thing is about being a mum is you love your child no matter what. She might be a little mad at first but she will come round. YOU CAN GET PREGNANT BY PULLING OUT. Its called pre come, and you can be pregnant and have a period. I would tell your mum about the mess your in and she will help you cause that's what us mums are there for. and i would do a test the day your period is due, I got pregnant at 18 and it's hard work you are still a kid with lots of things to do and see.And when you have a baby you have to put them first never mind the sleepless nights and crying dirty bums. I am from England and we finish school at 16. And my boyfriend had a job and it was still hard if your not you should ask your mum to help you get the pill or something that is right for you. I'm not having a go i'm just saying live a bit of your life before you settle down, Hope you get it sorted take care .

[smjmekg]

There's no way of knowing for sure what the possibility is, any time you have sex you can get pregnant, unprotected is just that much more of a risk. Wait until your next period is due and if it's late or doesn't show test.