How to tell mom???

[alissahann18]

I'll be 18 in one week and I just started my senior year in high school. I have no idea how or when to tell my mom/dad I'm pregnant. I think, I'll wait until I'm 4 or 5 months along, but I just want other opinions... I'm not scared to be a mom, I'm scared of the disappointment on both my parents and my bf parents faces.

[lovelyglover]

Well there's a 50/50 chance, also remember stress can cause yer periods to act funny and also the fact that yer young....I'm only 18 and had a few cycles where it was just spotting
Really the only thing yu can do is take a test but if yu turn out to not be I would suggest birth control if yu don't want a baby
Best of luck

[alissahann18]

No we usually use a condom. Unless a condom broke I doubt it and he usually checks. So.. *shrug*

[lovelyglover]

Do yu have unprotected sex regularly? Because if yu are thinking that what yu had wasn't a real period.and yu could already be pregnant yu should be able to get a positive test already
I'm sorry if I came off as rude its kinda hard to express emotion thru text

[alissahann18]

Spotting only lasted 2 days and stopped.

[alissahann18]

I had sex one day before my period.  I know because I can always feel it right before I get it and I was getting the first drops. Anyway, we had sex and he came in me. I didn't get my period for about 5 days and I don't think you can even count it as that. I didn't even notice it until me and my bf had sex, again. I went in the bathroom to clean up and there was just a little on my thighs, but when I wiped it was just a drop on the tissue. I watched all day and it hasn't gotten heavier like my regular periods were. The first days my period is REALLY heavy, not at all like this. When I wipe, the drops are there, but there's not a bit on my panties.  I'm going to continue to watch through the next couple of days, but do you think I could be pregnant? (I'm not on birth control and my bf didn't use a condom.) This is long, but this is why I think I might be pregnant. Yes, to early to tell but it doesn't mean I shouldn't prepare. I'm a worrier and I like to plan. This site was meant for questions and I asked. That's it.

[lovelyglover]

I understood perfectly what she was asking...