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Precum on the Finger Scare


I'm 19, she turns 19 this week. This past Saturday, we were fooling around a bit (massaging her neck, boobs, etc.), and she asks me to get off on her chest. I get up and start masturbating, and I use my saliva as lubrication, but my saliva dried out fairly quickly, and, in the heat of the moment, I reach down with my fingers and insert them, briefly, to get some lubrication. When I came, we cleaned up everything, washed our hands, and dried off the semen without it touching her vagina.

I had a thought, yesterday, that I didn't know the chances that there might be precum on my fingers during masturbation, and that it would lead to a pregnancy since my fingers came into contact with the interior of her vagina.

It would've been when my penis was dry and had no lubrication, or not enough to cause pleasurable wetness with which to masturbate. At the time, I had ejaculated early that morning, and had urinated since then; after that, we got into some grinding earlier in the day prior to my ejaculation, and, while clothed, I had precum in my pajama pants. I ejaculated in the described way a few hours after that.

She's not due for her period for another week or so, so this is just me wanting to have any questions answered before we see if she has her period.

I know I'm probably stressing out way more than necessary, and I'm fully aware that if we're not ready for kids, we should be more careful. It was in the heat of the moment, and we are taking steps to prevent something from turning serious.

Thank you for any help.
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Definitely. Thank you for your help.
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I don't think the odds change even though it's pretty clear she was ovulating.  

She was ovulating when this event happened,  it sounds like.  BUT STILL,  if you put a little pinhead amount of drying sperm in her vagina won't make her pregnant.  

To get pregnant,  you need the big wash of a tablespoon or more of semen to neutralize vaginal chemistry.  

The great thing is,  you'll know in 2 weeks.  Test in two weeks and you'll know.  
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Do you think the odds of pregnancy change if she's only been off her period since the week before last? I'm trying to figure up in my head the timeline for when that would make her ovulation. She'll have her period in two weeks.

I don't mean to be freaking out so badly, I just want to make absolutely sure, to the fullest extent that I can.
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Thank you very much. I was very concerned about that, but when I remembered that I had no lubrication, I surmised that I wouldn't have enough pre-ejaculate fluid to cause a panic.

I'm not informing her of this unless she misses her period. She usually gets it the first full week of the month, so I'll wait and see what happens. I don't want to stress her out and delay her period.
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13167 tn?1327194124
The chances are very,  very unlikely that she will get pregnant from this.  

Sperm need semen to neutralize vaginal chemistry,  and give them something to swim around in.  A few little sperm inserted with no seminal fluid will die pretty quickly.  
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