Exactly.... it break my heart.... I been with my high school sweet heart... more then 15 years..... I had 7 miscarriage.... been married 5 years now... I have my son miracle baby he soon to be 3... my hub and i always wanted 4 kids...but way I'm going not going to happen... we are looking for a house... and my hub get he master in june in networking.... he has a good job... that I don't have to work.... but I have my lil parttime job....just so I wont get bored.... I have cronic asthma, and I beat cancer.... don't do drug or anything bad... and it kill me to watch the news see ppl start a fire on purpose and leave there 3yr old to die.... or a father to throw a 2 out of a tall building then throw himself.... cuz the mom won custody.... there probably a reason why she won.... cuz u would kill him.... ( *******)...
@ avan. Pss... yeah we not being selective on adoption I would take older kids... only around this area... are kids with disability.... don't get me wrong I would take them if I could be I can't... at moment live 3 floor small apartment no room for wheelchair and was in bad car accident so really can't lift anything heavy.... so I take any, baby, toddler, preteen anything... waiting on lawyer to see we can talk about out the country....
I know soo maybe people that have way more kids than they can handle and they're just awful people.. It's gross. Something that has been bugging me is that 4 of my cousins are pregnant one is due today oddly enough, she's 20 having a baby with a 43 yr. old who doesn't have a job and already has 2 kids he doesn't take care of and they both live off the state and broke up, she's now living with her mom, two of them live together and are constantly calling my grandmother for money for food to feed the 2 kids 1 of them already have, and then the other is having a baby with some young kid that doesn't have any ambition to get a job both living with his parents, he even gets in fist fights with his mother.. Here I am, trying to have a baby, me and my boyfriend have been together about 3 years, both have had steady jobs for 4 years, and we are buying the house and land we live on, and we're not having any luck getting pregnant. It's soo friggin unfair..
I was just saying the same thi.g or these ppl that abuse drugs and not caring abt the bby inside them so aggrovating
There are enough kids in foster care awaiting adoption. Why add more who will have to live like that? Just because we are a bunch of pregnant women doesn't mean we're pro life. At least I'm not. Good luck ttc though or with adoption. Older kids need adopted too look into that.
:( i know exactly what your feeling,i feel like why do ppl like that even get blessed with such a gift and see it as a burden,when women like ourselves are struggling to conceive :'( dont you givev up hope! Be positive and you will get you gift and i bet when you least suspect it! Good luck and god bless...always keep in touch