can i be pregnant

[seante]

Im 19. I had unprotected sex with my bf Thursday aug.18 and aug.20 I was suppose to get my period which it didn't come til aug.22 and my period is never late so when iih came it started off light pink only seen wen I wiped then medium but not so heavy enough to bleed thru anything my period only lasted 3 days which is not normal for mi at all my period always last 5 days and today my period is so light only enough for a panty liner help mi please

[prettymom3]

ME AND BF HAD SEX ON AUG13TH WHILE HAVING SEX I STARTED BLEEDING, AFTERWARDS I REALIZED HE MAY HAVE KNOCKED MY PERIOD ON. MY PERIODS USUALLY LASTS 3-4 DAYS, BUT IT LASTED 6 DAYS. WE ALSO HAD SEX MANY TIME THE LAST TWO DAYS OF MY PERIOD ON THE 19TH-20TH, EXPECTED OVULATION WAS SUPPOSE TO BE THE 25TH-28TH, IS IT POSSIBLE TO FALL PREGNANT? ... I HAVE BEEN FEELING DIZZY, TIRED, HAVING HEADACHES,NAUSEOUS, HIGHTENED SMELL, PICKY EATING,AND WEIRD DREAMS. SORE BOOBS, BUT THEN A WEEK BEFORE AF IS DUE, BOOB STOPPED BEING SORE, JUST NIPPLE PAINS HERE AND THERE. THE DIZZY SPELLS STOPPED 4 DAYS BEFORE AF, AS WELL AS HEADACHES. NOW ITS SEPT 11. AND AF IS EXPECTED ANYWHERE FROM SEPT 10-13. LAST NIGHT I HAD A DREAM AF CAME ON. AND TODAY IM HAVING VERY SLIGHT TWINGES IN LOWER RIGHT ABDOMEN, AS WELL AS RIGHT LOWER BACK, WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK WAS IT POSSIBLE I CONCEIVED ON THE 19TH-20TH, SINCE BLEEDING LASTED LONGER THIS MONTH, WHICH WAS WEIRD.

[seante]

I agree with you

[seante]

Thanx I will. I just don't like wen sumbody post on my thread tryna say all this bout teen pregnancy and what it is to have a kid like we don't know this but I will keep you n check

[seante]

Thanx for your 2 cent but I realize what it is to take care of a kid I got friends and family member with kids so I know how it is thank you im not 14 and need you to tell mi bout how much kids is and all that don't u think we than thought bout this I don't like wen ppl comment on ne post tryna put dey 2 cent where it don't belong that's to anybody not just to you. Im 19 and have a job we got our own place together we both got a job im in college now we both have our own car so thanks for your lil information but please save it for somebody else as a teenager you may think we forget all this and that but that's not true I kno a lot of people with kids and doing everything they pose to do for their child. So thank you but I kno all this

[Lovilylady]

Putting in my two cents. My bf was born when his mother was 15 and father was 16. My bf is 24 and his parents are STILL together. They never got married and have him and his sister who is 20. They never went on welfare. And his father never skipped out. He went to highschool, and even went to college for NEUROLOGY. He is the healthiest person I know. never gets sick, and only thing wrong with him is he has an inherited bone deficency. His sister graduated and is going to college for medical too. Meanwhile I was born to parents in there 40s. I was held back, and never graduated highschool. (but i did recieve my ged and get into college). Im just saying that 50 percent of all statistics are made up on the spot. =/ I know many girls from when i was in highschool who had children very young. Some of them are suceeding and some of them arent. I think it depends more on the person than on the age nessesarely. I know some 15 year olds who are more mature than some 30 year olds.

[Clysta]

Ladies, please try to refrain from making this a huge argument. Everyone has valid points, and all should be considered carefully.

She's not the only one who asks those questions. I personally do quite frequently. Most teenagers don't consider the cost that babies really are, the state of our economy (which is beyond bad) and what it takes to live and not struggle right now. Too many teenagers and young adults think children and being parents is a breeze. They think everything will fall into place, and sadly pregnancy and parenthood is strongly glamorized. Babies are fun and cute, but they get older. I spend over 300 a month on my own daughter, and she's just about 1 year old. It's only going to increase. They also forget bills such as rent, car insurance, food, gas, phone, internet/TV, and the list just goes on and on.

[happymom184]

Um.sweetpea i think the last part of your comment is totally off the wall, ive seen you post on a few questions and there is no need for you to be judgemental or asking personal questions to these woman. If the have a job or not is not your problem.  Seante congrats if you are take the test let us know boo.

[seante]

Okay I will and you tell me anything about what happens new with you so I can try and see what's happening wit me

[seante]

PThanx for all your so called true reports but I don't need them first of all it ant a std both of us is clean and about da marriage and wat not it ant all true cause I got some people in my family who ain't married but their baby daddy's are still in their kids life better than some moms and im already in college thank you we got us a place tagetha im 19 not some 14 year old so I really don't need your lectures I jus asked a question not for you to get a idea of how my life is. We is doing good and why pressure marriage now were young majority of young teens aren't married and still do things for their kid I don't know how you was raised but nobody in my family went on welfare. Also we both got a job and is doing pretty good better than other teens are older people. Thank you for something I didn't care to know about. So if you gone try and lecture somebody do that to your kid not me

[MrsL1471]

My period was exactly the same. Just had 1 spot of blood today and was getting extreme pains in my breasts. Last time i was pregnant the top of my pelvis went hard and round. Which has happened this time. Let me know how you get on it might give me a little insight as to whats going on with me x x

[sweetpea03]

It could be a sign of pregnancy, but it's hard to say because bleeding can mean so many things(irritation, infection, STD, pregnancy, hormonal change, etc). You'll just have to take a home pregnancy test later on to find out. Though as a word of caution, many times, even with pregnancy being planned, your relationship will fail as teen pregnancy is very difficult. Statistically speaking, a majority of unmarried relationships will fall apart as soon as the baby comes. Only 20 percent of the fathers marry the teen mothers of their first children. Within 5 years of birth, over one half of young unmarried mothers will go on Welfare. Children of teen mothers are more likely to be born prematurely and at low birth weight, which raises the chances of blindness, deafness, mental retardation, cerebral palsy, and other disabilities. Children of teen mothers are 50 percent more likely to repeat a grade. They also perform much worse on standardized tests and ultimately they are less likely to complete high school than children of mothers who waited to have a baby. The
daughters of teen mothers are 22 percent more likely to become teen mothers themselves.
The sons of teen mothers are 13 percent more likely to end up in prison. Many things to think about before trying to become a mom at a young age.

Are you planning to go to college? Do you have a stable job/income? Do you have health benefits? Are you living on your own and paying for everything? There is a lot to think about before bringing a baby into this world. Look at your future and your baby's future(the statistics above) and then think about it all.

Good luck.

[seante]

Yes we are. Wen my period was two days late I was so happy then wen it came and only stayed for 3 days that isn't normal for me at all everytime I got my period it always last 5 days. Wen it first came it was light pink only wen I wiped then a lil like a period with slight cramping which only lasted a day then by wed it was so light not enough for a pad jus a panty liner and by yesterday it had went back to light pink to dark brown im confused and n

[sweetpea03]

Since your period is different than normal, you may want to take a home pregnancy test after you stop bleeding to rule out pregnancy as a possible reason it. Are you trying to get pregnant?