help!!

[bree1395]

So I'm really sure I'm pregnant. I have all the symptoms. But I won't show up positive on a test because the hormone isn't strong enough. But I have cramping hardness and So moody. And I haven't had my period since November but I miscarried in December. Does anyone think I'm pregnant.

[prettymom3]

I KNOW IT,  We are all on here for some type of guidance We come here bcus we obviously cant get the support from family or friends. At any age it could be difficult, and nerve recking to tell our family. So its SAD to see women that are on other forums asking why? come here, and degrade, humiliate, and be insensitive, to another. especially a 16 year old girl..  

[mistymomofthree]

i couldn't stand the way they were being towards her either. The way she was talking you could tell she was just scared that is why I posted my sisters story to give her some hope.
thank you for standing up for the way you did and alot of these women on here need to grow up and start realizing that instead of helping they are hurting.
God Bless You
Misty

[prettymom3]

CORRECTION::::I AGREE WITH BREE, GUYS YOU ARE ADULTS THAT ARE TTC, OR HAVE CHILDREN, AND FORGOT THAT AT ANY AGE WHEN PREGNANT FOR THE FIRST TIME, YOU WERE SCARED AND ON THE INTERNET ON FORUMS TRYING TO FIGURE OUT IF THEIR WERE OTHER WOMEN LIKE YOU. SO BEFORE YOU PLACE JUDGEMENT, MAKE ASSUMPTIONS, AND NOT KNOW WHAT MAY BE GOING ON IN THE HOME OF A 16 YR OLD WHO HAS FALLEN PREGNANT, REMEMBER YOUR FIRST TIME, REMEMBER WHEN YOU FIRST HAD SEX, REMEMBER HOW U FELT WHEN YOU MISSED A PERIOD. BECAUSE WHEN I FIRST GOT PREGNANT AT 16 I KNEW ALL ABOUT SEX AND BABIES. I WASNT UNINFORMED, NOR IGNORANT, JUST FELT ALONE, WITH AN ABSENT MOTHER. AND NO ONE TO TALK TO, THEIR WERE MANY PPL, I COULD HAVE SPOKEN TOO, BUT HOW MANY PPL. ARE GOING TO GIVE A 16 YR OLD ADVICE/ OR HELP WITHOUT JUDGMENT ( YOU LADIES CANT ANSWER THAT BECAUSE YOUVE JUDGED) WETHER UR 16 OR 30 UR FIRST PREGNANCY WILL BE ALL QUESTIONS, BECAUSE ITS UR FIRST TIME. YOU DNT KNOW ALL THE ANSWERS, UNLESS UR ON A BLOG SITE, LIKE MOST OF YOU ARE.  THERE ARE ALSO GROWN WOMEN ON HERE TELLING STORIES HOW THEY DIDNT KNOW THEY WERE PREGNANT AND THEY WERE SMOKING, AND DRINKING, THEY NEW THEY MISSED PERIOD AFTER PERIOD, AND TOOK TEST AFTER TEST AND IT WAS BFN, AND THEY DIDNT GO GET CHKD, WHAT ARE THEY IGNORANT AND UNINFORMED, COME ON, YOU ARE ALL ON THIS FORUM, FOR A REASON, AND TALKING AND GETTING HELP, AND WANTING TO KNOW SOMETHING.. SO I CAN WE ARE ALL UNINFORMED, SO YOU GUYS NEED TO STOP BEING IGNORANT AND PROVIDE HOPE, HELP, AND LOVE TO ANY GIRL, YOUNG WOMEN, GROWN WOMEN, BECAUSE AT THE END OF THE DAY WE ARE TRYING TO FIGURE THINGS OUT. SHAME ON YOU.. PS.. I WAS RAPED AT 16.. I HAD A MISCARRIAGE .. AT 17 I GOT PREGNANT AGAIN, AND I DIDNT GET ANY CARE UNTIL I WAS ALMOST 6 MONTHS, I WENT TO GET AN ULTRASOUND BECUS MY DCT SAID I WAS TOO BIG, AND IT WAS TWINS, WHO ARE NOW 5 YRS OLD. SO WHO HAS JUDGEMENT, FOE ME.

[prettymom3]

I AGREE WITH BREE, GUYS YOU ARE ADULTS THAT ARE TTC, OR HAVE CHILDREN, AND FORGOT THAT AT ANY AGE WHEN PREGNANT FOR THE FIRST TIME, YOU WERE SCARED AND ON THE INTERNET ON FORUMS TRYING TO FIGURE OUT IF THEIR WERE OTHER WOMEN LIKE YOU. SO BEFORE YOU PLACE JUDGEMENT, MAKE ASSUMPTIONS, AND NOT KNOW WHAT MAY BE GOING ON IN THE HOME OF A 16 YR OLD WHO HAS FALLEN PREGNANT, REMEMBER YOUR FIRST TIME, REMEMBER WHEN YOU FIRST HAD SEX, REMEMBER HOW U FELT WHEN YOU MISSED A PERIOD. BECAUSE WHEN I FIRST GOT PREGNANT AT 16 I KNEW ALL ABOUT SEX AND BABIES. I WASNT INFORMED, NOR IGNORANT, JUST FELT ALONE, WITH AN ABSENT MOTHER. AND NO ONE TO TALK TO, THEIR WERE MANY PPL, I COULD HAVE SPOKEN TOO, BUT HOW MANY PPL. ARE GOING TO GIVE A 16 YR OLD ADVICE/ OR HELP WITHOUT JUDGMENT ( YOU LADIES CANT ANSWER THAT BECAUSE YOUVE JUDGED) WETHER UR 16 OR 30 UR FIRST PREGNANCY WILL BE ALL QUESTIONS, BECAUSE ITS UR FIRST TIME. YOU DNT KNOW ALL THE ANSWERS, UNLESS UR ON A BLOG SITE, LIKE MOST OF YOU ARE.  THERE ARE ALSO GROWN WOMEN ON HERE TELLING STORIES HOW THEY DIDNT KNOW THEY WERE PREGNANT AND THEY WERE SMOKING, AND DRINKING, THEY NEW THEY MISSED PERIOD AFTER PERIOD, AND TOOK TEST AFTER TEST AND IT WAS BFN, AND THEY DIDNT GO GET CHKD, WHAT ARE THEY IGNORANT AND UNINFORMED, COME ON, YOU ARE ALL ON THIS FORUM, FOR A REASON, AND TALKING AND GETTING HELP, AND WANTING TO KNOW SOMETHING.. SO I CAN WE ARE ALL UNINFORMED, SO YOU GUYS NEED TO STOP BEING IGNORANT AND PROVIDE HOPE, HELP, AND LOVE TO ANY GIRL, YOUNG WOMEN, GROWN WOMEN, BECAUSE AT THE END OF THE DAY WE ARE TRYING TO FIGURE THINGS OUT. SHAME ON YOU..

[mistymomofthree]

I understand what you are going through my sister got pregnant at 15 yrs of age and i had my first child at 18.My sister was also very confused she took 15 pregnacy test her first three months the doctors even took one when she was 9 weeks and her harmone level was low so yes that can happen. Now I also want to tell she was a strong person. when she found out for sure that she was pregnant she sat down and told our parents they kicked her out of there house and she had no where to go. They told her she wouldn't amount to anything and she even got kicked out of school. Well she went and lived with my aunt in a different state and let me tell you she got enrolled back in school and graduated top of her class with a three year old son when graduation day came she walked up to that podium holding the hand of my nephew And I have never been more proud of her. After graduation she went to college and became a nurse she has three more children now and single but she owns her own house and takes very good care of my neices and nephews. Don't listen to all these other people on here you can and will be alright just take care of yourself and that child.

[Clysta]

You're right, you are just a child. But that changed when you made the choose to have sex and now you have to grow up far faster than you ever would have needed to. There is no easy way to do anything. You just have to be upfront, blunt and honest. You can not however say it's not your fault, you didn't mean for it to happen, stuff like that because it IS your fault, and when you have sex (especially unprotected) this WILL happen, whether you try or not. Does the father intend to stay? If not, it will be something you will also have to speak to your parents about. Be prepared for anger and disappointment. I got pregnant when I was 20, living with my husband (who at the time was my fiance) and my family was still disappointed in me. You have a lot you need to consider and think about now, and you will need the support of your family and parents--mentally and definitely financially.