Scan tomorrow

[abbifa83]

Tomorrow I will be 13weeks going by the lmp, and tomorrow I also have my first scan. I'm no longer with the dad and when I told him last week when the scan is he said he would be there.
Today I get a message from him saying that he is behind with work so won't be coming.
He is a self employed gardener so doesn't have a set schedule. I'm so angry and feel so let down. We have remained friends since we split so I wasn't expecting him to let me down as much as he has done since we found out I was expecting :(

[BabyBlueeeees]

i'm not with my child's father and i'm 13 weeks....yes i feel alone..yes i feel hopeless...BUT we have to look at the bigger picture now !! We have been selected to be a mother so see yourself as special in Gods eyes ! We gotta stop preparing for hard times and preparing for loneliness and prepare ourselves to be a MOTHER ! if we do that right (with or without a father ) EVERYTHING else will fall in place...keep your head up YOUR NOT ALONE IM GOING THROUGH THE SAME THING